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PI, 30M got married to 29F in 2024 Feb by AM.
I was emotionally blackmailed into the marriage. Since I didn’t have a will to live back then, I took the come what may route.In hopes of not going forward with the whole ordeal, I had told her I wasn’t interested in this or marriage in general during the procedural first look of the girl. She didn’t pay heed, complained to my already toxic family who again coerced me into it. My father took dowry of 2 acres of land which will only be transferred to my offspring. Now they are forcing me to have one.
However, I was sure from the beginning that even adjustment is not possible with a lady like this. I tried to make it a comfortable relationship but failed. I only thought about divorcing her from the day 1. She is not ready to go for a mutual divorce even though we are practically living separately, no physical relationship whatsoever.
I have recordings of her admitting that she herself went ahead with the relationship even when I wasn’t interested.
Now the problem is, my parents and grandparents will do anything for honour. I am afraid of losing my life in case I file for the divorce. They would do anything.
It has gotten to the point that they are suspecting me of having an affair and abuses me saying I am incapable and a transgender.
I am planning to move out, find a job in another city and apply for the divorce.
Can I get police protection? What would the alimony amount be since it’s been only an year? And in case I have to proceed with contested divorce, how long does it take?
Please help me out.
TL:DR : got married out of family pressure. Want a divorce. Wife not agreeing for mutual divorce. Dealing with toxic parents who might even do honour killing.
(I am posting for a friend because his account doesn’t meet the karma requirements)
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