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- January 23, 2025 at 12:52 pm #68010 Reply
  Sarveshshark605
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  January 23, 2025 at 12:52 pm
  
  I am planning to marry a girl in an arranged marriage setup.
  We haven’t given our final approval yet. She is a doctor, and I am an IT professional working in a good company.
  She had previously taken a business loan for setting up her clinic. Last week, she called me and asked to meet her at a new under-construction project to see a flat. When I visited, her parents were also present, and she booked a flat in her name. Her father seemed unhappy with her decision. The loan approved was for a total of 85 lacs.
  
  In the future, I am planning to buy a flat, most likely after marriage.
  If I marry her, we will both have the burden of EMIs. I don’t understand the logic behind her purchasing a flat at this stage.
  Is this something common?
  Or is this a red flag?
  If I marry her, will these kinds of financial decisions affect the smoothness of our marriage?
- January 23, 2025 at 1:04 pm #68015 Reply
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  January 23, 2025 at 1:04 pm
  
  Did you discuss the future house and emi’s with her before her decision to buy the house ?
  
  Looks like you guys need to sit and talk. Sort out finances before the wedding please. All this is very important.
  - January 23, 2025 at 1:08 pm #68017 Reply
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    January 23, 2025 at 1:08 pm
    
    She knows
- January 23, 2025 at 1:27 pm #68014 Reply
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  January 23, 2025 at 1:27 pm
  
  Again why this query in a legal advice sub ?
  - January 23, 2025 at 1:28 pm #68016 Reply
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    January 23, 2025 at 1:28 pm
    
    For expert’s advice
    - January 23, 2025 at 1:29 pm #68018 Reply
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      January 23, 2025 at 1:29 pm
      
      My dear sir, where is a legal query? You’re asking for relationship advice
- January 23, 2025 at 2:58 pm #68013 Reply
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  January 23, 2025 at 2:58 pm
  
  As long as the finances , particularly loan are dependent for properties in her name ( the one she buys herself) and she pays for it herself – no issues. DO NOT PAY EMI/ OR her loans where you will not have and stake now or in future. If you do then kiss those payments goodbye , don’t expect any return from it. If your fiance expects you to share that burden then its a huge red flag.
- January 23, 2025 at 4:25 pm #68012 Reply
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  January 23, 2025 at 4:25 pm
  
  If bank is giving her loan to buy house…
  What is your worry ?? If u like the girl.. marry her… She’s independent… Don’t worry about anything else
- January 28, 2025 at 1:55 am #68011 Reply
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  January 28, 2025 at 1:55 am
  
  Your post is generic and does not have a substantial legal issue involved.
  
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