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SMy father is basically a full blown psychopath who would do anything to get his way. He is a Sadist, a narcissist and he raped my aunt when she was 25 prior to her marriage. And we recently got to know about it. He had multiple affairs for the past 40years of marriage.
Since my mom married my father all she has seen is beatings and verbal abuse. He never used to let her sleep if she slept peacefully even one night. He used to hold the knife and slightly stab her and threaten her. Even if someone else looked at her, she would get beaten up at home. He wouldn’t let never let us visit friends or relatives house. He has beaten up my brother as well same as my mom. There’s so much I can’t even type out. Basically he is not human at all.My parents are separated. He has not provided any financial support to my mom, neither helped me in my education. Hasn’t taken any interest in our family and goes sleeping around with old flames.
We have 2 house in the same property which belongs to my mom and he forcefully entered 1 of the house and is staying there. In the new house which we are staying, the money is invested by my father and brother (50/50) which is almost 1.5cr. My brother was 27 at the time. My father took all his savings and tried to kick my brother out of the house. But somehow after multiple complaints we made sure he doesn’t get involved with the family and parents separated, which he is still not ready to accept.
I’m taking care of the finances of the family and we are doing quite well. My brother is depressed and has gone separate ways and rarely calls. So no support from him. So it’s just me and mom now.Now-
Since 1 week my father is acting like a monster. As early as 5:00Am he comes inside the new house, completely opens the gate and throws around things that are around. Bashes and kicks on the door screaming in every disgusting word a father could use on his wife and daughter. He abuses the neighbors for being on our side. He calls me and mom as prostitutes. And screams to the whole neighborhood to hear.Today we called the police (112/8) and they arrived within minutes And enquired. He was yelling at the police itself for questioning and started abusing us aswell. Later me and mom went to the station and filed an official complaint. They asked us to come in 2 days, they have asked us to have discussion with the SI along with my father. So waiting to see how it goes.
We have never hired a lawyer and I want to understand in detail what to do next. I just want my mom to live a peaceful life without him and I never want to see him again.
1. Restraining Order (Protection from Domestic Violence & Harassment)
• What legal actions can I take to protect my mother from my father’s harassment and abuse?
• How can I get a restraining order (protection order) against my father to prevent him from coming near my mother or the property?
• What evidence or documents do I need to support my case for a restraining order?
• How long does it take to get a restraining order, and what are the legal consequences if he violates it?2. Property Rights & Stay Order
• Since the property belongs to my mother, what legal steps can we take to prevent my father from entering or disturbing us?
• Can we get a stay order to stop him from claiming any rights over the property?
• What documents do we need to prove sole ownership of the property?
• If my father has not contributed financially towards the children’s education, marriage, or future, does he have any legal claim on the property?3. Can we put him in mental institution as he is not fit to live in the society as a normal/ decent human being?
Sorry for the typo. Please ask any questions for clarification
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MQuestion: All kids are adults and you are financially independent. Why have you not started divorce proceedings? I can understand your mother may have learnt helplessness throughout her life. But please end the control of that monster over her life.
A family law lawyer can answer all the questions for you, taking into account all the details of the case. Dig deep, you have courage to do it within you.
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SThank you.
Today the police asked the same question. 😭
My mom’s brother is not letting her file for divorce as it brings bad name to the family. She had filed for divorce once but my father rejected it and threatened to murder her. She is terrified of him.
Now I have spoken to my uncle and told him to stay away if he is not willing to help and encouraging mom to file for divorce and get it over with.
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MTell mom’s bother that every time POS father creates a ruckus, you will do 10 times to him if he interferes.
Talk to a good family lawyer, get protection order against father and proceed with divorce. Install cameras with voice recording in the house (at least all places except bedrooms/toilets). Bullies run away when you stand up to them.
Your mother is a victim of abuse. She needs you to have strength on her behalf.
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