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UUser_6a2beb7b
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February 27, 2025 at 2:33 pmI stay at an apartment complex and from one of our room windows, we have a view into the balcony of our neighbour who lives one floor below us.Now on multiple occasions, I have seen this man walking around in only underwear, and also completely nude. I brushed it off thinking “it is his house, he has a right to do what he wants”.
However, today while looking out of my window, I caught him engaging in sexual intercourse with his partner (both nude of course). That to me, crosses the line.
Maybe they thought we couldn’t see into their balcony, but this must count as public indecency/ indecent exposure surely?
I just want to know if anything will come out of pressing charges against him? Should I at least file a complaint to somebody?
Any advice would be highly appreciated as I cannot have this happen again.
TLDR : caught my neighbour one floor below having sex in his balcony. Want to know if it counts as indecent exposure under the Indian Law?
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UUser_0f0aa7a7
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February 27, 2025 at 2:43 pmI see your username is Lover of books, try reading some books about minding your own business.-
UUser_6a2beb7b
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February 27, 2025 at 2:48 pmI don’t know about you, but I would feel very uncomfortable if I had guests over and one of them (God forbid, a child) saw this through my window.It’s wrong, and he could be doing this anywhere else in his house, just not somewhere that other people have a view of.
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UUser_0f0aa7a7
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February 27, 2025 at 2:49 pm“His” house -
UUser_936330d9
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February 27, 2025 at 3:03 pmYou can just tell them politely once just incase they are not aware. If then also doesn’t change maybe look into options.
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UUser_6d00a591
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February 27, 2025 at 2:46 pmAverage DLF U Block resident. -
UUser_ef565377
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February 27, 2025 at 2:48 pmEither they ‘find out’ that you saw them have sex and the sheer embarrassment is enough to prevent them for doing it again, or they don’t care and you just have to deal with it. -
UUser_a5fb03ed
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February 27, 2025 at 2:48 pmNo you can’t do anything…. As he/she is doing it in his/her private space !!
So better close your eyes and stop peeping. -
KKhushistar405
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February 27, 2025 at 2:48 pmI know ppl are inclined to say let him be. I would have agreed if this wasn’t a residential complex that most likely has children. Have some sense ppl -
UUser_ccaae42a
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February 27, 2025 at 2:49 pmMat dekho balcony Mai simple -
UUser_0b28e4ba
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February 27, 2025 at 2:49 pmStart blasting bhojpuri songs in your balcony when he starts the act.-
UUser_c62c44dc
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February 27, 2025 at 3:07 pmOr dharmik bhajan. Mood pe paani phir jayega.
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JJyotishark377
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February 27, 2025 at 2:50 pmAjkal sab legal advisors ban gae hain -
WWiseminakshi8783
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February 27, 2025 at 2:51 pmYou a girl? Cause most guys would enjoy that situation 😂-
UUser_6a2beb7b
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February 27, 2025 at 2:54 pmYes I am, and he was havjng sex with another man.I wouldn’t enjoy it either way, but to each their own I guess.
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BBraveseeker242
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February 27, 2025 at 3:00 pmWaw. This is important information you should have mentioned in post.He is deliberately doing it. call some men society members and let them handle it.
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MManishaguy843
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February 27, 2025 at 9:14 pmmay i ask what made you say this? why is it deliberate in this case and not if it was a man and a woman? just curious-
BBraveseeker242
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February 28, 2025 at 5:29 amThat man doing in balcony is likely bisexual. It’s just his pervert nature.
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UUser_f705f399
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February 27, 2025 at 3:03 pmJust stop being the neighborhood watchdog when they’re getting busy, either look away or pretend it’s not happening. Not much else you can do about it, at least legally.
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UUser_ea544761
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February 27, 2025 at 2:52 pmMy advice is to mind your business, why you looking at them?-
UUser_6a2beb7b
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February 27, 2025 at 2:55 pmHi I completely agree with you, it’s just that I’d feel uncomfortable if a guest or possible a child saw this, it doesn’t sit right with me you know?All I wanted to know is if there’s anything I can do about it or not.
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MManishaguy843
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February 27, 2025 at 2:58 pmclose your curtain! so simple -
UUser_ea544761
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February 27, 2025 at 3:01 pmDo you have curtains ? You can try telling them directly if it happens again or really frequently but i don’t think that would be the case. So I suggest just getting curtains or keeping the balcony locked when kids come, guests even if they see it will ignore it cause it’s awkward. You could tell them nicely tho, that’s the only way, complaining etc would be too much and hinder them from having freedom in their own house -
UUser_af69f506
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February 27, 2025 at 3:21 pmYou definitely don’t wanna mind your own business because you are talking about pressing charges. If it bothers you, you can just point it out to them, why involve legality into it. Clearly you are one frustrated person. -
IIndianseeker6932
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February 27, 2025 at 3:35 pmU ask for legal advice and they reply emotionally. Downvotes reflects it
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UUser_4a2e9c13
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February 27, 2025 at 2:53 pmCome TF on man y’all need to learn how to mind ya own businesses.-
AAvaniseeker113
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February 27, 2025 at 3:10 pmYo! El burro
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UUser_4fdb853b
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February 27, 2025 at 2:56 pmstart masturbating while watching them and assert dominance -
UUser_bdb00fe7
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February 27, 2025 at 2:56 pmActualy You might be in trouble under Voyerism Laws (354C) because you watched his GF ( female ) in place were privacy is ” Expected ”Now there many small things in this law but It’s definitely a twistable law.
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UUser_6a2beb7b
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February 27, 2025 at 2:59 pmHe was having sex with another man.-
UUser_bdb00fe7
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February 27, 2025 at 3:10 pmMale Privacy is dead so ur in the clear in this case
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SSwiftlakshay6226
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February 27, 2025 at 2:56 pmJust casually inform the guy when you see him ki bhai andar kar le or cover up well in balcony.Anything more than this would be terrible idea.
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UUser_119f6e6c
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February 27, 2025 at 2:57 pmIsme bhi ab tujhe Legal advice chahiye ghochu -
UUser_e8ea0bad
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February 27, 2025 at 2:57 pmWell, you’re kinda having a war in the comments lmao. I understand not everyone likes a free sex livestream. Next time maybe just try to make some noise when they’re at it to let them know that others can see them. if that doesn’t work try filing a complaint with the society or police. That should help. -
HHappyninja8838
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February 27, 2025 at 2:57 pmHis balcony is his private space i guess so no, not public indecency. Stop looking if you don’t wanna get into trouble -
MManishaguy843
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February 27, 2025 at 2:57 pmwhy would this be illegal? he’s inside his own house doing perfectly legal things. wanting to cockblock somebody through a legal loophole is crazy -
WWisebear8536
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February 27, 2025 at 2:58 pmYou should just mind your own business and let him do his thing. -
UUser_e79bfe6d
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February 27, 2025 at 2:58 pmVoyeurism level 1 -
UUser_f705f399
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February 27, 2025 at 2:58 pmAlso, I don’t see how this is any different from your neighbor one floor above banging someone while the person below hears all the noise from the moving furniture. Can we go and complain about that? Nope, we just deal with it. -
UUser_fe27f22f
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February 27, 2025 at 2:59 pmHow about just leaving them alone? Why is your first instinct to go tell somebody? They’re happy and are likely into exhibition but they’re doing it INSIDE their property and not bothering anybody. Do the same and mind your own business. It’s not like they do it everyday (as per your description), it won’t do you any harm to look away from the window once in a while.There’s already enough hate going around, please don’t add to it.
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UUser_ea9babd4
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February 27, 2025 at 3:00 pmസ്വർഗ്ഗത്തിലെ കട്ടുറുമ്പാകാതെ, TBH i wont make it a big deal out of it and its healthy to have sex in open space :/ -
UUser_06a7ebc8
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February 27, 2025 at 3:00 pmBro tf 🤣 case for having sex in his own house -
SSupersamir3329
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February 27, 2025 at 3:00 pmSend him an anonymous letter to his home hoping the couple lives nuclear. -
CCleverpragati8409
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February 27, 2025 at 3:01 pmTell him politely that you can see what’s business he’s doing. I’m pretty sure he’s not aware that you or anyone other person can see them -
UUser_c32db856
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February 27, 2025 at 3:01 pmlegally they have the right to expect privacy and it might be a violation on your end if u try to capture any evidence for any case -
HHiteshguru668
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February 27, 2025 at 3:03 pmNext time Play bheege hoth tere loudly while they are in the act. They will get the hint. -
UUser_900e445f
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February 27, 2025 at 3:05 pmPosts like these get traction here… But when I posted a real problem I got no reach & barely any advice. Sad reality -
VVandanafalcon559
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February 27, 2025 at 3:05 pmIf you really want legal action, you’ll have to prove:1.That their balcony is clearly visible to the public (not just your peeping eyes).
2. That multiple people (not just you) were offended by it.
3.That you didn’t actively choose to keep watching.
If you can’t prove this then you are the creepy one and should be booked under voyeurism.
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UUser_c62c44dc
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February 27, 2025 at 3:06 pmPartner? Is it what I’m thinkin is? -
UUser_e035a0f1
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February 27, 2025 at 3:06 pmDon’t Look. -
AAdvikrider264
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February 27, 2025 at 3:06 pmCall the cops next time, any sexual act in public view where one cannot except privacy, will fall under obscenity -
UUser_65d09c90
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February 27, 2025 at 3:08 pmLol I have the same problem but with my upstairs neighbour. Though i cant see them but they are very loud! And this thing usually happens around 2 am in the night so most other immediate neighbours would be unaware i guess. I don’t like it but don’t think there’s much i can do here-
MManishaguy843
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February 27, 2025 at 9:12 pmwhy don’t you guys ever try talking to people… you don’t even have to be specific, just say you were getting disturbed in the middle of the night by noises, most people are decent only and will understand what the issue is-
UUser_65d09c90
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February 28, 2025 at 1:44 amYeah i actually tried that once. Went upto their flat. I could hear there were people insode but no one opened the door. So…
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UUser_f455b604
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February 27, 2025 at 3:08 pmmaybe trying to attract more partners /s lol -
AAnkushknight509
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February 27, 2025 at 3:09 pmYou sound like someone who’s frustrated in his/her own life and can’t stand anyone else having fun in theirs. Sorry for being harsh!!! -
CCleverpanda1429
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February 27, 2025 at 3:10 pmJust take a pic & post it in the apartment whatsaap group -
UUser_810ca25d
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February 27, 2025 at 3:11 pmThat’s disgusting ? Where ? -
UUser_33daf9fa
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February 27, 2025 at 3:11 pmBc apna kaam kar na kaun kya kar rahahain tereko jyada tension horahain -
SSupergowri8151
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February 27, 2025 at 3:13 pmBe away from his view and start clapping when he is done. You can chant ” once more” to add to the embarrassment -
MMegabro9024
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February 27, 2025 at 3:14 pm‘ Didn’t look more than I had to ‘ — tell us more OP 😂 -
UUser_f6d0e2ae
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February 27, 2025 at 3:17 pmBRO WHERE DO YOU LIVE -
UUser_3582cb3b
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February 27, 2025 at 3:18 pmWhy are you bothered ? You can mind your business as well, it will be very convenient for you ! -
CCoolkishore46
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February 27, 2025 at 3:18 pm😂 -
UUser_41993add
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February 27, 2025 at 3:19 pmHe’s still in his house right? It’s not a public place and unless he deliberately wanted everyone to see it, I don’t think it counts as public indecency. He might not be aware. -
LLatashark54
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February 27, 2025 at 3:21 pmIt is their space. Dont look if u dont like! -
UUser_f0c3b90e
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February 27, 2025 at 3:21 pmI offer my services to film them! (As evidence) -
UUser_a6b7394c
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February 27, 2025 at 3:21 pmYou’re a creep -
KKushstar706
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February 27, 2025 at 3:23 pmYell “Finish Her” next time -
UUser_289916ad
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February 27, 2025 at 5:35 pmRecord the footage and sell it on the internet. Make them go viral.
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