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C{Summary: You and your girlfriend sought laser hair reduction treatment at a hospital where a Dermatology PG student, “N” (your friend’s boyfriend), was involved. Initially, he facilitated the procedure and even suggested using your sister’s student ID for a discount. However, he later became hostile due to personal insecurities and conflicts involving his girlfriend, who confided in you about his abusive behavior.
During the third session, he created a scene by yelling at your sister. The situation escalated after his girlfriend met you, cried about her mistreatment, and then seemingly instigated him against you. Before the fourth session, he stormed in with a Senior Resident, disrupted the procedure while your girlfriend was not fully dressed, accused her of using a fake name for a discount (which was already known to others), and forced her to pay the full amount before resuming treatment.
When you arrived to resolve the issue, N confronted you aggressively in the corridor, tried to physically assault you but was restrained by his peers. You reported the incident to the HoD and Medical Superintendent, but he was only given a warning.}
I am an MBBS intern. My girlfriend is non medico. She wanted to get Laser hair reduction. One of my friend in another medical college adjacent to mine has a boyfriend who is Dermatology PG student in that college. My sister also studies in the same college.
After talking to the said “boyfriend” (lets call him N), he said we can get it done at their hospital. We proceeded with it and he also said that perhaps with my sister’s ID we can get student discount (30%).
We got 3 Laser sessions done. Today was the 4th session.Now the boyfriend kind of resented me and my sister because he is very insecure and all and he thinks we talk shit about him to his girlfriend (She is the one crying that he hits me, hurls abuses at me etc, we just agree).
During the 3rd session he created a scene by yelling on my sister to get out of ‘his’ department. Apparently most college students also feel that he is a bit psychotic.
Yesterday his girlfriend met me and asked to have a beer (we didnt have it with her) and cried to us for over 2 hours about how bad she is treated, we just told her to have some self respect and all. She then proceeded to meet him afterwards and talk shit about us. After which he called and threatened me.
Today 4th session was scheduled. I didn’t go in the hospital initially to avoid any heated confrontations. But N guy stomped inside the room with a Senior Resident (ex PG student) while the Laser Hair treatment was going on and my girlfriend wasn’t dressed appropriately, and he had them stop the treatment and had a heated discussion with my girlfriend and complained that she was getting the treatment under a fake name to get the 30% (1500₹ discount) and behaved as if no one knew (all the PG students knew, everyone doing the treatment knew).
Then the SR asked her to get a bill under her own name and pay the extra and get the treatment completed. I came in the hospital got her the bill, and went to derma and had her treatment resumed.
Then that guy came out in the corridor, power tripping over the fact that he is a PG student and i am an intern (in a different college) he started yelling and threatening and calling me inside a room, i didnt go in,stood my ground, and just said,” Kya dikkat hai teri bhai?” (“What is your issue bro”)
He suddenly lunged at me trying to hit me, his peers grabbed and pulled him away before he could reach me, while i stood my ground silently not willing to be scared or anything.
The commotion was calmed down by his peers and during the incident he managed to scrape my neck once with his hands.We proceeded to complain to the Head of Department (who was taking his side) and then complained to the medical superintendent of the hospital who just left him with a warning.
This guy has a history of being violent and drunk and also both together. And he made my girlfriend cry after the heated discussion and while i didnt hit him, but he hit me in hospital premises while i was there as an attendant/patient. Also did i do the right thing by trying not to escalate the violence? And should i pursue this legally?
(Attached pic of the bruise- https://imgur.com/a/43Ka0Dy )
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