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IHi,
I am trying to get married to gf, we are together from last 8 years but my father is against it due to cast differences.
He is threatening me that he will get me legally implicated or file false accusations and he will get me fired from my job if I do this.
He is not very influential but very cunning.
Is there anyway I can safeguard my job?
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WNAL but look into how you can get legally disowned citing these threats before your dad can do anything?
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II know that can be done but problem is I have one 7 years younger brother who might need me later in life when my uncle’s kid may try to get ownership of whatever land we have in our hometown.
Both of them are older than us.
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WThen this is gonna get tricky for sure and seems like you’ve thought it long enough and are on the right sub. If not anything, hopefully my comments will help you gain some traction on here maybe.
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WYou have really different priorities
First, go to HR and tell them the truth, so you are safeguarded.
Second is to leave your parents, and get married and build your life.
But knowing you, you won’t do either.
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IYou know me?
Didn’t get you😅
I don’t want to legally hurt my family either.(I know my father has gone insane)
Just want a safe passage, my girl’s parents are supportive and they are in the process of getting us married meanwhile I want to secure my job as well.
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YIf you are attempting to convince and change your father’s ideology via tips from reddit…
Show him your d**k pic and tell him its bigger than his, has no caste barrier so he can mind his life now.
Bonus: suggest him some erectile dysfunction clinics
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MBro just stop talking to them. Stop visiting to them. Why are you asking dumb question? How can you go legally about it? It’s not America
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IYou can legally get separated from our parents, there is a process for that.
I was asking wether that what the other guy meant.
You need to calm down.
If he is threatening to legally implicate with false accusations then I can safeguard myself from that, i just want to know how.
There is nothing american about this.
He knows where I live, where I work, I don’t want to run and hide from him which might infuriate him further causing more harm.
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SYou are an adult, and so as legally separated as you can be under Indian laws.
If you are in a private company in some city and your father is physically elsewhere, it is highly unlikely he can do anything at all to affect your job.
But he can file random cases etc against you perhaps, forcing you to come to the police station and waste your time. But this is difficult.
if you can cut off all communication and contact for a while, that might help. Every conversation and contact with you will give him new ideas.
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Uhe is just bulfing , if you feel you need to do something , make sure your HR knows , the Police station knows and your parents know about the two things , your dad can’t do much , but since he is your father and he loves you in his own toxic way its your duty to keep the door open , he should eventually understand ….dont cut them out he will only spiral and suffer
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