Seeking advice before marriage

[Shachithinker299]

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Shachithinker299
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April 22, 2025 at 10:03 am

I’m going to marry, and I want to ensure if there’s any premarital legal considered agreement/bond which helps in ensuring girl can’t take away property in divorce and she can’t file any fake cases, also we both want to live childfree life by choice, this also needs to be mentioned so that no one changes the decision in future

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[Braveninja1446]

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Braveninja1446
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April 22, 2025 at 10:08 am

Property can be kept on parents name to save it while separation

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[Happyrider8409]

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Happyrider8409
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April 22, 2025 at 10:09 am

Rather don’t marry her.. marriage is trusting your life with a person and you are so paranoid! Please spare her!

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[Alphaknight2287]

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Alphaknight2287
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April 22, 2025 at 10:24 am

Don’t marry if you can’t trust your partner.. goes both ways

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[Alphaarnav2326]

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Alphaarnav2326
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April 22, 2025 at 10:32 am

Pre-nuptial agreements are unenforceable in India since No agreement can be made contrary to existing statutes. Whatever you may sign is worthless if you’re not able to enforce it in a court of law. If you don’t see eye to eye on fundamental issues better not get married. Trust is very essential.

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[Luckypanda2667]

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Luckypanda2667
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April 22, 2025 at 10:36 am

Don’t marry

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[Quicktanay7254]

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Quicktanay7254
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April 22, 2025 at 10:41 am

You need counselling. It’s a marriage, not a business deal

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[Epicsonu8326]

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Epicsonu8326
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April 22, 2025 at 11:29 am

If he thinks otherwise, he’ll prolly end up being too broke to afford a counsellor after 🫠

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[Rapidhero8855]

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Rapidhero8855
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April 22, 2025 at 10:44 am

Incorporate a trust and transfer your properties to the trust. Keep your parents as trustees. You will be able to bypass the legal hassle of prenup.

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[Megaguru6645]

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Megaguru6645
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April 22, 2025 at 10:51 am

Your marriage will never work if it’s so contractual… Even if you enter into one you will soon part as the basic foundation of marriage i.e trust is completely missing…

You can’t have a successful marriage in such a mechanical way…

Talking from my experience I am a 43 year old female married for the past 18 years and known my husband for 1.5 years before marriage.

So if you can’t meet at an emotional level better don’t marry.

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[Cooltanay9944]

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Cooltanay9944
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April 22, 2025 at 11:52 am

Marriage is contractual.

Marriage in India is basically
I give you money(dowry),you marry my daughter

Very rare cases of emotional level marriage exists in India ig

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[Megaguru6645]

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Megaguru6645
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April 22, 2025 at 12:19 pm

Sorry that you have experienced this kind of marriage but please don’t generalize it for all..

No emotional level marriages are not rare ..

It’s as common as a non emotional one..

FYI ..There is a whole diaspora of male who don’t take dowry nor there are fathers who trade their daughters to men with money..

The one who takes the marriage as a trade will experience a mechanical marriage but the one who has an emotional connection will be much above this level..

Well I won’t even try to make you understand this because you won’t ever understand it.

Emotions in a marriage are between husband and wife and the one who hasn’t experienced this ever will only think it is platonic..

What you have written says a lot about your thought process…

Please do whatever you feel is right for you..

Don’t even try to engage in a conversation with me under my comment..

Be happy with your thoughts process

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[Nileshfox961]

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Nileshfox961
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April 22, 2025 at 10:51 am

if you are confused about the situation dont marry. take your time. because no agreement of decisions you two take will help you if scenario changes

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[Alphastar7759]

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Alphastar7759
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April 22, 2025 at 10:56 am

The fact that you are asking this question means you haven’t built an emotional bond or intimacy with your to-be spouse. Don’t go into a marriage by blindly trusting someone you don’t know well.

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[Rapidwolf7847]

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Rapidwolf7847
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April 22, 2025 at 11:10 am

Just make a trust. Don’t transfer name to parents, doesn’t work. Make a trust, put all the properties in trust name, before marriage ofc. Idk about after marriage

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[Cooltanay9944]

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Cooltanay9944
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April 22, 2025 at 11:54 am

Literally wants to stay childfree and also be afraid of your wife taking your properties??

Why even bother to marry?

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[Brightsarita124]

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Brightsarita124
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April 22, 2025 at 3:12 pm

Don’t want babies, don’t want to share property rights, So for what purpose are you marrying ?
If the purpose is sexual relationship, you can continue without marriage.

But Remember: After a certain age nearing to retirement age , everyone needs partner to care eachother. And it’s the most beautiful thing about marriage that you willingly help eachother, Money/ Property/ car/ kothi all will be non-valuable for you but you will seek someone’s mental intimacy and someone to talk without any relevant topic.

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