Threatened by this random mum of a girl I was dating

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      Promegha1471
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        March 15, 2025 at 9:59 am
        So i was dating this girl and I was interested to marry her. She comes from a very conservative household. Recently her mom came across her chats and there was some sexting from both sides and she called me up. She proceeded to mention that she would file a fake case against me and she also mentioned my sister who lives in the same town as them as a threat. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to record the call. Is it possible to take any legal action in this case.

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          March 15, 2025 at 10:03 am
          All the best, OP.

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            March 15, 2025 at 10:04 am
            Call her mom again and record it. I bet she will say shit again.

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                March 15, 2025 at 10:05 am
                Yeah idw to do that but this is just as a precautionary measure

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                    March 15, 2025 at 11:47 am
                    Yeah….

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                  March 15, 2025 at 10:13 am
                  Call her tell her your daughter and I went to hotel multiple time if you call police I’ll let everyone know about this, anyways your relation doesn’t seems like it will gonna work

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                      March 15, 2025 at 10:16 am
                      Yeah it’s done already but just for my safety in case they file one

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                          March 15, 2025 at 10:18 am
                          Keep the chat screenshots if they are so conservative they will be worried about their names getting dragged in the mud so they won’t but if they do then what’s stopping you, go with full force say whatever you wanna say to save your ass it’s not like they gonna ask you, β€œohh so you f*cked our daughter, then prove it”.

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                              March 15, 2025 at 10:20 am
                              Thanks a ton been really fucked in the head since the call

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                                  March 15, 2025 at 10:23 am
                                  Been there her mom called and that girl even refused that I don’t know this guy, I said fine go ahead if you poke I’ll make sure I fight this thing till I die if you involve my parents then nothing is stopping me to ruin things for you or we can just call it off Indian parent typically a girl’s parent will back off and will just say don’t come near our whore πŸ₯°

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                                      March 15, 2025 at 10:30 am
                                      True that man and sorry u had to go through that

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                              March 15, 2025 at 10:23 am
                              She is supposed to handle her parents & you’re supposed to handle youre parents. Not the other way round.if she cant keep her mom in check then she will never take stand for you

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                                  March 15, 2025 at 10:24 am
                                  Her mom is a psycho tbh even her dad can’t keep her in check as for her she regularly gets beaten up by her

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                                      March 15, 2025 at 10:28 am
                                      There is nothing you can say that can convince her bro. You are a stranger to her.. its all upto your gf..Let things cool down. Then ask your gf to convey her side & feeling. If not mom then try to convince other members of her family. If no one is supporting you guys..then there nothing more you guys can do.

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                                          March 15, 2025 at 10:41 am
                                          Yeah exactly but tbh I don’t think I want it anymore. Unless her mums outta the equation which would then mean something. But then again I think this is irreversible.

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                                              March 15, 2025 at 10:52 am
                                              Okay if thats the case…then I dont think there is any case or FIR she can do as long as the sexting was consensual . She probably just said to scare you off. If you backout then there is no reason for her to pursue you

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                                                  March 15, 2025 at 11:00 am
                                                  Yeah it was consensual. But her mums a crazy one so I don’t believe her words

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                                          March 15, 2025 at 10:37 am
                                          Not a lawyer

                                          OP better to forget about it and move on.

                                          If she files any legal case against you then you are cooked. Though you will get justice in court but it will take 2-4 years for it.

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                                              March 15, 2025 at 10:38 am
                                              Yeah I’m doing that. But the woman is crazy so I can’t tell when she will switch up.

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                                              March 15, 2025 at 10:46 am
                                              You better record whatever she says bruv. Voice recordings will be better. Especially when she’s threatening.

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                                                  March 15, 2025 at 10:50 am
                                                  Wish I could but it’s already done

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                                                  March 15, 2025 at 11:24 am
                                                  The best way forward is for her to move away from her parents. When you live on your own, you have automatic independence.

                                                  Also, mothers aren’t that strong physically. She shouldn’t take the abuse silently.

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                                                      March 15, 2025 at 11:24 am
                                                      Yeah I hope so. Yeah her mum isn’t strong but she uses stuff to whack her as well as sharp things too.

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                                                      March 15, 2025 at 11:45 am
                                                      There’s nothing to worry unless the girl you’re with is someone who’d swap sides on her comfort.
                                                      Even in a scenario of a case, if the adults are in consent your lawyer can make a case of just an unhappy crazy over controlling mother who wants to regulate all steps of her daughter’s life.

                                                      You should focus on your girlfriend’s words and actions.

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                                                          March 15, 2025 at 11:47 am
                                                          Yeah she can’t do much because she’s living with her mum who beats her to a pulp as per her wish.

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                                                          March 15, 2025 at 2:57 pm
                                                          Few things:

                                                          Ask the girl to deal with her mother. If she can’t, leave her because that means her mother will FOREVER be a nuisance in case you and the girl end up getting married. If it happens, the girl will eventually have to take side of her mother (it will happen) and your marriage will become a pain to say the least.

                                                          Another thing – get an MI or poco phone. They have call recording function where the other person isn’t made aware that the call is being recorded. I think every other phone says the ‘this call is now being recorded’ once you press record and it let’s both you and the person on the other side know that the call is being recorded. You wouldn’t find that issue in MI or poco phones…

                                                          But….yeah, your best bet is to break off with that girl

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                                                              March 15, 2025 at 2:59 pm
                                                              Yeah thanks for that. It’s already broken off. Just made the post to get into a counter suit in case they get too smart.

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                                                              March 15, 2025 at 5:29 pm
                                                              this is exactly why i always have my voice recordings ON for all calls. 🫠

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                                                                March 15, 2025 at 6:20 pm
                                                                Hey OP maintain distance from this family. Things may not turn out well for you.

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                                                                    March 15, 2025 at 6:21 pm
                                                                    Yeah gonna do that honestly

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                                                                    March 16, 2025 at 2:28 am
                                                                    This case thing is just to scare you off that you stay away from her , alot of parents when they come to know first time about the relationships of their daughter, they will say something absurd in hopes that the BF backs out. Her mother is saying to back out but idk what will happen if you continue dating her because if she finds out again then its i cant guarantee anything lol

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                                                                      March 16, 2025 at 2:47 am
                                                                      For now be prepared that anything comes at you for a few days, If nothing is happening then chill bro. I m sorry this happened to you because this sort same thing happened to me, when I was dating this chick and her father found out about relationship and back then we were teenagers, and her father was lawyer lol, the father said you and your family have to come to police station and said he was gonna file case and back then I was naive I thought now I m fucked and I thought I will be in jail or something lol. But when I reached the station the constable just scolded me and said that stay away from the girl but this was done to scare me off and that day I just realized that Indian parents will do anything to scare you off.

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                                                                          March 16, 2025 at 4:43 am
                                                                          Thanks for the advice dude. Sorry u had to go through the same shit😭.

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                                                                              March 16, 2025 at 5:08 am
                                                                              🀣🀣🀣🀣

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                                                                            March 16, 2025 at 9:04 am
                                                                            Whats so wrong with women threatening false cases knowingly. This is seriously pathetic mentality.

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                                                                                March 16, 2025 at 9:24 am
                                                                                Yeah istg it was a truly frightening experience.

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                                                                                March 17, 2025 at 2:25 am
                                                                                I never really understand the appeal to date a person who’s from a very conservative family. Like if your dating life is that shit, stop dating that person, it’ll end up bad cause they can’t stand for themselves if they are brought up like that.

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