Urgent! Yesterday my cousin brother molested my bhabhi when no one was at home , he forced himself onto her and tried r*ping her

Community Forums Legal Advice India Urgent! Yesterday my cousin brother molested my bhabhi when no one was at home , he forced himself onto her and tried r*ping her

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        May 6, 2026 at 1:20 pm
        I need help and legal advice on what to do now , since these things happened the whole family of my cousin is supporting him and they’re threatening us with a fake case of we file case or complaint

        What are our options

        And how to proceed

        Genuine legal advice is deeply appreciated πŸ™

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          May 6, 2026 at 1:23 pm
          Ever heard of Police?

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              May 6, 2026 at 1:24 pm
              Yes we went there police is trying to get this matter sorted in house first,
              I want to know how to go on with this case now
              As this happened at our native place in UP we live in Mumbai

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                  May 6, 2026 at 1:25 pm
                  Actually my brother is there with bhabhi, so I want to help him as much as possible with genuine advices of legal practitioners

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                      May 6, 2026 at 1:32 pm
                      Buddy ask your bhabhi to file a complaint with the Police in writing. 🀦🏻

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                          May 6, 2026 at 1:34 pm
                          That’s the plan

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                            May 6, 2026 at 1:57 pm
                            FIR. file it. Police advise is great, thank them for it. And proceed with the FIR.

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                          May 6, 2026 at 4:55 pm
                          Ask your bhabhi to call 1091 (women helpline number). They are going to take this seriously if the call comes on this number unlike right now. Fir FIR lodged karke tumhaare cousin ki aisi halat karenge ki jail se nikalne ke baad bhi kuchh karne ki haalat mein nahi rahega

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                        May 6, 2026 at 1:33 pm
                        might look like off topic. Also, i am not sure how old is your cousin. There are ton of nsfw reddit communities popping up now a days purely using AI to generate some unethical fantasy videos. Those are likely contributing to this rising number of incidents. Hope authorities take some measures to curb such forums. There should be a limit to what they are putting out there. Stay safe. no matter how much we are reporting to intermediary providers and the platform itself, none of them are caring about such requests and simply ruling out saying they are under age restriction. But, nothin is actually stopping these kids to create an account online and say their age is above 18. Feeling chills down the spine looking at all these incidents.

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                            May 6, 2026 at 1:35 pm
                            He’s ig 24-25 years old

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                                May 6, 2026 at 1:40 pm
                                irony πŸ™

                                not sure what motivated him to do. unless he is already such a person from the past. nonetheless, She needs more support and courage to navigate through this situation though this will haunt her for a very long time. Feels like crying at the sad state of the society. More power to you and your family!

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                                    May 6, 2026 at 1:45 pm
                                    Idk what has gotten in to him , he was always a playboy kinda person,
                                    But we never thought he would something this kinda shitty act in house ,Tbh we didn’t see this coming, it’s messed up on top of that these gaav ke logo ki mentality trying to blame shit on her
                                    I’m sick of this place and thinking

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                                        May 6, 2026 at 1:49 pm
                                        we cant cure a generational way of thinking. it is a sad reality. only thing in our hands, is on us not to think like them and make sure our kids are raised better. Hope she finds a closure to her issue.

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                                    May 6, 2026 at 1:51 pm
                                    getting downvotes on my comment itself is sheer example of how many perverts are there in these online forums.

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                                        May 6, 2026 at 2:22 pm
                                        It sure does

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                                          May 6, 2026 at 9:42 pm
                                          You’re being downvoted because you took one incident and directly blamed it on something you don’t like without presenting any evidence or correlation. You could have also blamed it on drugs, bad friends, item songs etc etc. Doesn’t make any of it valid.

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                                              May 6, 2026 at 9:55 pm
                                              ok, putting my intention again if it was not clear. i am not blaming it against one single thing. just put down my thoughts here as that is one of the most harmful things going on right now on reddit just behind an age switch. no verification nothing. If you can show me a proper sub reddit where i can raise my voice against such groups to the authorities, that would be a huge favour for me and sorry for taking this chance below this post to ask for things like this. that’s the irony. i could have blamed it on drugs, bad friends, item songs etc etc yes or sure. and those things also contribute to such behaviour. but, this platform is reddit and i wanted to bring issues related to this one as well. i am up for anything that brings in some harmony to the society.

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                                            May 6, 2026 at 2:04 pm
                                            Desibaba and Literotica existed long before sub reddits

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                                            May 6, 2026 at 1:51 pm
                                            This is serious, your bhabhi should first get medical check-up and evidence collected immediately. Then file an FIR at the nearest police station for sexual assault. Don’t negotiate with the other family, and keep any proof of threats. Their intimidation can also be reported. Also contact a local lawyer or women’s helpline ASAP for proper legal support and protection.

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                                                May 6, 2026 at 1:55 pm
                                                Yes, I have strictly told my brother to file an fir ,not to back down , thankyou for your input πŸ™

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                                                    May 7, 2026 at 2:41 am
                                                    Keep a record of the threats being made. It will be helpfulΒ 

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                                                  May 6, 2026 at 2:24 pm
                                                  1. Seek medical attention, even psychological.

                                                  2. Maybe get the police involved, file an FIR at least.

                                                  3. Unless he’s a product of incest, don’t say cousin brother – legally that matters; cousin is a gender neutral term, say male cousin at least.

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                                                      May 6, 2026 at 2:27 pm
                                                      Will do that thank-you πŸ™
                                                      I don’t even want to call that man as my male cousin anymore

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                                                      May 6, 2026 at 2:25 pm
                                                      Lawyer here.
                                                      Please contact the police and get medical done.

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                                                          May 6, 2026 at 2:26 pm
                                                          Will do that thank-you πŸ™
                                                          Please let me know what more to be done

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                                                              May 6, 2026 at 2:57 pm
                                                              In case the police refuse to file an FIR, give a complaint and have acknowledgement on your copy. Keep your conversations with the cousin’s family documented in the form of chats and videos, as proof.

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                                                                  May 6, 2026 at 3:13 pm
                                                                  Will do that thank-you for your input πŸ™

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                                                                      May 6, 2026 at 4:34 pm
                                                                      If the Police refuse to File a FIR, call a lawyer & file a FIR before the District Magistrate.

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                                                                          May 6, 2026 at 5:17 pm
                                                                          Thankyou for your input πŸ™

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                                                                  May 6, 2026 at 3:19 pm
                                                                  FIR is the only option

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                                                                    May 6, 2026 at 3:42 pm
                                                                    NAL

                                                                    Don’t forget to keep us updated on what happens to that dougchbag after FIR and police escalation.

                                                                    Lage haath ek do FIR uske baap/maa par bhi lagado on basis of threating victim

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                                                                        May 6, 2026 at 5:18 pm
                                                                        I will keep updating…..
                                                                        I really appreciate you all giving valuable inputs
                                                                        Thankyou guysπŸ™

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                                                                          May 6, 2026 at 7:00 pm
                                                                          Bro this is a legal advice sub. ‘Haath lagado’ will only weaken OP’s case.

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                                                                              May 7, 2026 at 4:46 am
                                                                              “On basis of threats to the victim” read it again bro

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                                                                            May 6, 2026 at 4:52 pm
                                                                            this sounds extremely serious especially because the situation is already shifting from the assault itself into pressure and threats from the family side which can make victims feel trapped very quickly the part that usually matters most in cases like this is preserving whatever immediate proof exists right now whether that is messages calls injuries torn clothes or even a written timeline of what happened because things tend to get distorted later once families start interfering have the threats from their side been made through calls or messages that are saved anywhere or is everything happening verbally inside the family right now

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                                                                                May 6, 2026 at 5:19 pm
                                                                                We’re trying to get everything/and Every piece of evidence in order and we’re in touch with our lawyer as well,
                                                                                I Really appreciate you allπŸ™πŸ™

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                                                                                May 6, 2026 at 9:06 pm
                                                                                I don’t get few things op,
                                                                                So do you guys live in joint family?
                                                                                Is there any previous such instance where your bhabhi got any instinct of his bad intentions?
                                                                                I hope your family is supporting your bhabhi completely?
                                                                                Has this guy previous such history?

                                                                                Did your bhabhi acted in defense?
                                                                                Get that proofs and click the picture ,

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                                                                                    May 6, 2026 at 9:12 pm
                                                                                    Actually , we all live in Mumbai my immediate family and my sister in law as well , she was at her home in village of sultanpur UP (her mother’s place),
                                                                                    We have family there (in Sultanpur) and house and land with my cousins and my uncle(my father’s younger brother) so my brother (her husband) recently went to UP 3 days back to attend a marriage so she(my sister in law) came to our house in village, before this she was living with her mom in different village,
                                                                                    So yesterday afternoon there was no one at home my sister in law was alone that’s the time he did that

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                                                                                    May 6, 2026 at 9:55 pm
                                                                                    Always call women’s helpline for women related crimes.

                                                                                    They have to have to take down the fir in these cases.

                                                                                    I never visit the police station first. My first approach is calling the helpline. N all those calls are recorded and cant just be ignored without an apt closure.

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