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UUser_05df72f6
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January 26, 2025 at 5:19 pmToday I witnessed a crime in broad daylight. A couple was harassing a person 20M for not letting the women go first in a shapping mall.
The women started the argument by taunting him “you don’t know how to respect a women” continued with “this is what your parents taught you.” The person harrassed named Arun (you will know how I got his name). Her husband started violently touching his chest shouting “say na what you are showing attitude say yes or no”. Arun was humiliated as hell and was pushed multiple times and finally his left his calmness and asked softly “what’s your problem with others” and then the women got violent and hit his chest saying people like you.
The situation escalated and arun arun slapped her because he was provoked, insulted and humiliated by the young couple. The later will always make me stomachache by the horror i witnessed.
The man jumped on him and started punching Arun for slapping his wife. His wife on the other hand started recoding herself saying a rapist just slapped her and his husband is keeping him in hold. Later she recorded me and asked me to call the police I was just stuck by what just happned.POLICE ARRIVED after sometime I didn’t call them the security guard called the police till then Arun was punched continuously and was being called rapist,sexist and a criminal by her wife and people around. The women like jumped on police and saying shouting a rapist just slapped me and was trying to run. He didn’t mention the part where the lady was insulting and harrassing arun. The police just asked him did you slap her yes or no multiple times.Arun was trying to explain what really happened but police started harassing him now by saying didn’t you listen what I just said ? Yes or no. Arun was forced to say yes. His husband was violently abusing him calling a disgrace to India. Like police just ignored what his husband did by taking the law in his hand.
Police started slapping him asking him yes or no. He was not given a chance to speak the truth. The women started manipulating him asking police how much jail time is there for doing against the modesty of a women.Before you balme on me what was i doing I shout have interrupted , said the police the truth and all.i was my self scared and threthed by his husband moves and fighting skills.
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UUser_00c76c16
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January 26, 2025 at 5:25 pmMy favourite gender fr -
UUser_83dc8ad0
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January 26, 2025 at 5:33 pmThese husband wife seems to be organized criminals who knowingly do such things in public place to provoke men, then they call police, and at last settle the matter by demanding hefty compensation from the accused men.-
IIndianparvati8292
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January 26, 2025 at 7:04 pmyup seems like this is what happened here
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BBrightudit6560
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January 26, 2025 at 5:33 pmBro seriously i doesn’t have intent to low you, you should start recordings because i would love study that you showed reality to police and Goodness Won-
UUser_7dbc0466
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January 26, 2025 at 9:09 pmI am suspicious of OP. Itโs a shopping mall so cctv would be present and there would be people around witnessing it. And if in-fact such a thing happened then OP is equally responsible for Arunโs situation by doing nothing. Would the husband beat him in-front of the police if he explained what was the situation to the police? Definitely not. Things are not adding up OP.-
BBrightudit6560
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January 26, 2025 at 9:11 pmTrust me, OP’s story can be full real, i also witnessed same kind of stuff some time ago. Maybe it’s myth but if it’s real then one present there could do more than OP by presence of mind-
UUser_7dbc0466
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January 26, 2025 at 9:21 pmExactly. If it happened, then OP chose to remain silent when it mattered but had time to write it up on Reddit for what ? Clearing conscious? Nah. Karma farming ? Who knows. People like OP are the reason many people end up on wrong side of the judgements. He also has a similar post on something similar happening to his co passenger on flight and trust me no flight attendant will force you to move to different seat because a women refused to move from his pre booked seat. OP always end up as a witness in such situations but never speaks up. I call all of this BS.-
BBrightudit6560
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January 26, 2025 at 9:24 pmThat i didn’t know, well back to back such spicy incident taking place is somewhat rare, if it’s time ago such as 6 months even so that’s fine but if both post are in same month so no i also be suspicious on OP. Btw he said he was afraid of consequences, even me or you would do what OP did if got frightened.-
UUser_7dbc0466
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January 26, 2025 at 9:35 pmHe commented on another post in the same sub to record videos and take screenshots and to contact a local lawyers for some issues some guy faced. A person with that sort of knowledge would do exactly that when a situation arises right? Afraid of what sort of consequences? I donโt think police or the husband will hit him for saying what he saw as an eye witness. Sorry, I for one will definitely be narrating the whole incident to the police. I would have tried to stop the husband from beating up that guy but informing police is something any sane person with a spine would have done.-
UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 3:07 amHey do you have a problem with me or what.
In many cases the eye witnesses are also harassed by the bully couple. First of all the husband had a mental problem I think the way he started beating him nonstop there were many people around who saw this not only me but no one came to save him because most of them were scared and afraid that the women would call us rapist supporters and police would beat the shit out of us.
Informing police is another thing I was gonna write about in part 2 i still think they were not actual police or the police which were bought by the couple so extract money.
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UUser_c69ad1b4
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January 27, 2025 at 9:29 amI don’t think the evidence will matter once the woman pulls out her victim card. I have seen this first hand.-
BBrightudit6560
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January 29, 2025 at 3:53 pmBut when we have video then her lie will be spotted
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UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 7:33 amWhy would I start recording even if I did the lady would also call me a rapist and a sexist. Police I think was included in this plan by the way they acted on Arun. These couples are I guess who find people to extract money out of it . I was scared and threatened by what they did.-
BBrightudit6560
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January 27, 2025 at 9:10 amYa we understand bro but if you witness something pls Don’t be quite. If the same situation would be with you and no body help you, what you feel, your trust on humanity would be wipe out and also the trouble you got in you have to face alone.-
UUser_05df72f6
OP
January 27, 2025 at 12:13 pmOk i got it
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UUser_bf85a047
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January 26, 2025 at 5:36 pmAur karo support. Aur karo candle march. Aur bano male feminist-
BBrightudit6560
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January 26, 2025 at 9:09 pmYou said some dangerous statement, idk weather support you or counter. But one thing don’t interpreted Feminism with misandry (fuck men mindset) or misogyny (women are slave mindset) as Feminism literally means to oppose both and stand for Equal rights to both genders.
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UUser_f8ee4289
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January 26, 2025 at 5:42 pmShould’ve recorded the entire thing. -
UUser_029852aa
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January 26, 2025 at 5:43 pmChinaal mentality -
QQuicknamit8968
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January 26, 2025 at 5:51 pmHonestly..he shouldn’t have slapped a women…pushing her away would have been the best move.-
UUser_29933aaa
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January 26, 2025 at 8:14 pmR u dumb …we can’t is process in such situation and pushing may be cancelled be projected as sexual harrasment even if his slightly misses
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UUser_6ce170aa
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January 26, 2025 at 5:55 pmRead in one of the sub few days back where how a foreign lady was telling about how many indian men approach her and her husband, asking them about their experience in india, she wrote some were a nuisance but most of them were nice and welcoming. What did i find in comment section ? :The feminists and even male feminists were calling out indian males, “projecting them as potential r*pe inflectors” , asking her to avoid them, even telling how indian males are the worst species.
Even though the lady is trying to project a good view about indian guyz , are own people trying to paint us as a bad seed
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UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 2:59 amI understand what you meant but how does it relate to this topic
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UUser_bc731654
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January 26, 2025 at 6:29 pmThe most important part of the name Arun is run. Arun shouldโve remembered that instead pf getting into argument with such imbecile couples.-
UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 5:42 amI guess he was provoked so that he forgot that.
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UUser_e4fb5eac
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January 26, 2025 at 6:47 pmI mean you were there and witnessed everything. You shouldโve told the truth to the police. I know you might have got scared as well but it would have meant a lot to Arun if you had just once stepped up. I donโt blame Arun, that lady and her husband were lucky that their victim was a young guy in early 20s. I would have shamelessly thrashed that guy in front of his wife.-
UUser_c1d6f707
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January 26, 2025 at 7:16 pmExactly -
UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 5:18 amRead part 2 of it
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UUser_c1d6f707
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January 26, 2025 at 7:19 pmYou too are at fault for not standing up for a fellow man. You didnโt even bother to record it on your phone and post it online.-
UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 5:42 amI was scared that the women would also call me a rapist and sexist and record me-
UUser_c1d6f707
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January 27, 2025 at 8:09 amDidnโt you have a phone at the time?-
UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 8:19 amI had but I was stuck by what I just saw I was with other people someone must have started a video but I didn’t because I was scared and threatened by his husband’s retaliation.-
UUser_c1d6f707
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January 27, 2025 at 9:13 amIf you had taken a video, then that man would be sitting in a police station right now with nothing but his underwear. Nevermind, at least now youโve learnt the importance of standing up for a fellow man.
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VVedantpanther618
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January 27, 2025 at 2:17 amIt’s scary these days. False accusations of rape and dowry are on a rampant rise in India.Be carefull out there boys.
And I must confess- the more and more I realise what men in the country are going through and how women are so non chalant about it, it makes me less empathetic towards women.
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MMightyanshu8910
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January 30, 2025 at 3:05 pm>it makes me less empathetic towards women.You’re less empathetic towards women that are harassed daily?
Your own logic also applies to us. We grow up facing harassment from men our entire lives, not even limited to strangers, and that is what makes us care less of men’s issues. Also, when everyday survival is so exhausting, there isn’t much energy left to care for other issues.
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IIshantknight421
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January 27, 2025 at 8:45 amBro is a karma farmer, 4 visible post and 447 post karma-
UUser_05df72f6
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January 27, 2025 at 12:12 pmTelling what happened is not called karma farming.
Will I get some money if I do so ?
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UUser_a728ce79
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January 27, 2025 at 3:48 pmThe real criminals are the people that let this happen. You are a coward and maybe I would be in the same situation. They have the audacity to do such things because we let them so until we can’t do anything let’s mind our business and move on and if we can let’s make things right. -
UUser_bf96e461
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January 30, 2025 at 12:13 amHusband fighting skills? Lol -
MMightyanshu8910
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January 30, 2025 at 3:07 pmBhai, you guys just come and cry on Reddit about men’s rights, but when something actually happens in front of you, crickets?Fir bologe “where’s the outrage”? Chance tha kuch bolne ka to khade hoke dekhta gaya.
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UUser_05df72f6
OP
January 30, 2025 at 3:13 pmWhy would I start recording even if I did the lady would also call me a rapist and a sexist. Police I think was included in this plan by the way they acted on Arun. These couples are I guess who find people to extract money out of it . I was scared and threatened by what they did.
I was scared of the husband’s retaliation
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LLuckypanther3524
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January 31, 2025 at 3:08 pmBro is this real, pls help Arun.
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