What has this Sub become?

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        February 22, 2025 at 6:47 am
        Hey everyone,

        I just wanted to share something that’s been on my mind. I’ve noticed that a lot of people come to this group looking for legal guidance with their problems, but instead, they often face ridicule. I just saw a post from someone who shared their experience of being emotionally manipulated and ending up in a relationship with a sex worker. The comments were just brutal like “Bhai tu l**d se sochta hai” and “Tum chu**ya hai.” Seriously, do you guys really think he needs that kind of validation right now?

        I get that some people feel the need to show off how smart they are compared to others. The least you could do is atleast be supportive even if you have no legal acumen. Please don’t throw around harsh comments or redundant advices. Everyone has their struggles, and a little kindness can go a long way.

        People consult lawyers when they’re in a tough spot and go to doctors when they’re sick. Imagine if doctors just lectured us about all our life mistakes instead of helping us get better. That would be the worst!I

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          February 22, 2025 at 6:51 am
          There is lack of people who know law here.

          • #49438 Reply
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              February 22, 2025 at 7:17 am
              Lawyers here don’t comment because even lawyers get ridiculed by these armchair critics.

            • #49437 Reply
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                February 22, 2025 at 9:27 am
                No free lawyer tips 🤗

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                February 22, 2025 at 6:56 am
                He was getting ridicueled not because he got in relationship with sex worker but because he gave lakhs to her and all these when he is just 20 and in college.

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                    February 22, 2025 at 7:02 am
                    And did that solved the legal query ?

                  • #49435 Reply
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                      February 22, 2025 at 7:21 am
                      Okay. But all I am trying to say is — were the comments helpful?

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                      February 22, 2025 at 7:00 am
                      159K members and none of them are much active sad to see.

                    • #49422 Reply
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                        February 22, 2025 at 7:37 am
                        Lawyer here, I see many non lawyers giving gyaan here, so its better to keep quiet I feel.

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                            February 22, 2025 at 7:59 am
                            Realistic comment

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                              February 22, 2025 at 9:38 am
                              I find one person who posted that a lawyer helped and then went on ridicule the lawyer who tried to help. This person even alleged that the lawyer must be getting cuts.!!

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                                  February 22, 2025 at 10:45 am
                                  Why would someone even ridicule a lawyer who helped him
                                  Ridicule means to say against someone right ?

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                                      February 22, 2025 at 12:08 pm
                                      Yes.. the person even went onto speculate that he/she (the lawyer) must be getting a commission for referrals !

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                                    February 22, 2025 at 9:43 am
                                    Don’t do that, we need people like you.

                                    Please give your advice and ignore them.

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                                      March 22, 2025 at 10:00 am
                                      Hi I have an issue pls help me out.
                                      So for context, my neighbours who are having police connections make a lot of noise. By making a lot of noise, I mean they literally yell, they shout, their kids play on road even at 10 in night. The RWA doesn’t does anything. Everyone is fed-up of them but no one takes action. THEY ALSO FIGHT WITH PEOPLE AND EVEN DID AIR FIRING BUT STILL NO ACTION WAS TAKEN. POLICE COMES AND WATCHES FROM A DISTANCE AND GOES AWAY. THEY EVEN ONCE STONE PELTED BY CALLING GOONS FROM UP. I’m not even able to sleep at night. They have 2 buildings and they’re a joint muslim family of west up, with no etiquette and values. I want to do a police case but I can’t as they have links with police. How can I take a legal action without my name getting revealed.

                                      Tldr – my neighbours who have police connections make a lot of noise and I can’t even study and focus. How to take legal action without letting them know it’s me.

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                                      February 22, 2025 at 7:58 am
                                      I totally agree with you
                                      Before I used to see mini 10 lawyers comments like
                                      ” Lawyer here ” then some realistic and legal advice. I think most of them aren’t online for long or they don’t think the matter is important enough to give advice.

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                                        February 22, 2025 at 8:22 am
                                        Honestly, I argued with a guy here giving shit advice. He kept replying defending his words for 10-15 comments. Called me aggressive, told me to stfu, all the usual stuff. Finally he angrily replied by saying – how should I know, I am 17.

                                        That’s who you are getting advice from here. 17 year olds.

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                                            February 22, 2025 at 9:46 am
                                            I’m not actually 17 years old, but I’m terrified by the media.

                                            The media promotes fear-mongering of topics that are closest to our conservative emotions, right from the time of the first human being.

                                            Don’t you see?

                                            We men are shown how women are scary and evil.

                                            And you women are shown how men are bad and you are all time in danger.

                                            A perfect blend of extreme media consumption to trigger hostile behaviour from both sides.

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                                            February 22, 2025 at 8:23 am
                                            Buddy, this is the internet. Not a designated law forum by the ministry of law. Relax

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                                                February 22, 2025 at 8:24 am
                                                Sad!

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                                                    February 22, 2025 at 8:28 am
                                                    Here you go op, you just found an example.

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                                                      February 23, 2025 at 6:56 am
                                                      My sympathies and welcome to the internet

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                                                      February 22, 2025 at 12:04 pm
                                                      So?

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                                                          February 23, 2025 at 6:55 am
                                                          So read the comment again

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                                                        February 22, 2025 at 8:39 am
                                                        This is reddit bro. What do u even expect? I had posted a similar thing on this reddit a long time ago and I also got ridiculed alot. People want themselves to feel good about being smarter. But tbh, what that guy did was alot more stupid and worse than what I had ended up with lol.

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                                                            February 22, 2025 at 9:10 am
                                                            Call me an optimist! I am drawn to the bright side. What that individual did was likely a mistake. People often learn from their mistakes.

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                                                            February 22, 2025 at 9:28 am
                                                            I blame the mods of the sub for letting this happen and not have a strict ban for such things

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                                                              February 22, 2025 at 10:24 am
                                                              Become? Was it ever much better? This behavior is quite normal for Indians. Don’t you think? In fact it could also be considered as a part of ‘Indian Culture’. Because this sort of behavior is very typical for Indians. People who have never left India and who are still laboring under the delusion that India is the greatest country and a ‘Vishwaguru’ might disagree, but fuck those idiots. I’ve lived in several countries.. Indians always love to pull their their countrymen down whenever possible. It is their main source of pleasure.
                                                              Actually I was not very active on Reddit until about 2 years ago.. so you might be right. Reddit might have become more cruel because there’s lots more Indians on it now( whereas earlier users were on average , more educated, cosmopolitan persons.)

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                                                                  February 22, 2025 at 12:22 pm
                                                                  >Reddit might have become more cruel because there’s lots more Indians on it now

                                                                  This is true. Prior to 2020 reddit was an amazing source of information. Now it’s turning into an extension of instagram and facebook. And with that we’ve seen an increasing number dimwits.

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                                                                  February 22, 2025 at 11:25 am
                                                                  Thank you. This was needed.

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                                                                    February 22, 2025 at 5:30 pm
                                                                    Agreed. Mods need to monitor unwanted advice and criticism. Any vague comments need to be deleted and blocked.

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                                                                      February 23, 2025 at 12:18 am
                                                                      I feel to solve this,Non constructive comments should be monitored more stringently by the mods.

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                                                                        February 24, 2025 at 3:46 am
                                                                        To the MODS – Can we have a flair system ?
                                                                        Let OP choose if he wants reply “only from lawyers” or “replies from all”

                                                                        I totally agree with OP here, Back in the days I used to visit this sub reddit to learn about laws and what should be done if we are in the same spot in future. But recently the quality of sub has gone down the gutters. 99% replies starts from NAL then some blah blah blah. Not that I hate those comments, I understand they want to help too but then actual comments by lawyers get lost in the comments.

                                                                        Can we please have a flair system here ?

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