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Alphahawk6131
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April 26, 2025 at 6:14 pm

sounds like you have major descripancy in spending habits and seeing your partner go down an almost self sabotaging route can be frustrating and painful. As a women i understand why she thinks it looks like controlling but i feel this is a sign that this marriage wont wont unless you find ways to not be affected by her behaviour or she finds way to work on shared financial decisions or whatever it is that works for you 2. If you have tried this and it hasn’t worked and you sitll end up fighting about it and you have reached a point where your body is physically expressing the frustration like throwing the bag then its a clear sign that it will escalate and its better to take a break or call it off before it takes more control over you, you can always try individual therapy for yourself to see if you can detach from the impact of her behaviour, but i hope it’s worth it, i hope she sees your efforts to make this work and enrolls as well .

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