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ANo, the amount of self defence exercised has to be on par with the level of threat percieved. Groping is nowhere near as bad as murder. You can slap, you can pepper spray or tase them maybe, but unless you wanna be in prison for offing someone, I would suggest don’t killAFirst of all, i hope your wife gets cancer. She seems like a horrible female. Secondly, since you said your children are 8 and 5, children above 5 can express their preference in court as to which parent they wanna be with, however this is not the sole deciding factor. The court will have to be sure that they are matured enough to understand their choice. So I wouldn’t be too sure about this. If I were you, I would tell them about how terrible their mother is and try to get them to your side but don’t be compulsive with them. Tell them how she cheated on you and her family and betrayed you guys.
We also have to keep in mind that the law is heavily biased towards females when it comes to divorce and custody. A man is almost helpless in such cases. Another piece of bad news is that in most cases, affairs don’t directly affect custody unless-
The affair poses a moral risk or unsafe environment for the child.
There’s evidence that the mother has abandoned her responsibilities.
The child has been exposed to inappropriate behavior or neglect.
If you can prove this then you may have a chance. Evidence like cctv footage, texts, etc. can be **critical** in arguing that your wife is not in a stable or appropriate environment to raise the children.
The DV case does complicate thngs. However, if you can prove it’s baseless and false, it may actually work out in your favour later.
File for divorce immediately on the ground of cruelty. Apply for injunction to prevent her from seeing your children or from running away with them. Most importantly collect as much evidence as you can.
