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BScary stuff man. More power to you. Will pray that you come out of this thing stronger. I am no lawyer, but I think parting your ways is the best thing you can do. Forget about the marriage expenses. My cousin bro is also in a similar situation and he is fighting for divorce and custody of the child. But you don’t have and kid with her so that’s good.BBro start gathering proof, record conversations, start documentation. And most importantly I think it’s better to separate your ways as clearly she is unstable. And she is willing to give divorce so that’s better for you.BSame thing happened to me few years ago during lockdown. I was in 4th/final year of engineering.
Suddenly in whatsapp I see a random message from a girl. She said it was a wrong number but she kept messaging me. I just started preparing for GOV exams that time so I didn’t wanted any distractions. But she kept messaging and I was replying. Then she started giving hints ki you know she is interested in me and all. She always used to divert from the question about her studies and age. Her profile pic in WA and FB was well it was kind of hard to tell her age from that. Then one day I was pressuring her. The moment she said class 9, I was like WTF.
I wanted to immediately block her, that was my first instinct. But then I thought about it, asked advice from my best friend, and I tried to make her understand this is wrong and all that stuff. She was just not listening to me. Then one day she video called me, and I was with my parents. I was like it is going too far. I messaged her and told many lies….like we are really poor, my father is really strict, I have many health issues and blah blah, then I stopped replying from that day and then she also stopped messaging…..well kind of. And one fine night I blocked her.
Be a little smart and cautious about this kind of stuff. Things can go sideways.
