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BIf you are sending an anonymous mail then make sure the mail id also be anonymous.
Don’t use your obvious mail id…
BYou should definitely go for it, no matter what, things shouldn’t take a toll on personal peace.Which services are you in?
BSolid ground for divorce is her affairs. Collect all possible evidence of that first without she noticing anybit. Then only move for divorce to avoid any maintenance or alimony, til then work in silence to collect proofs. Best wishes for your brother, stay strong…BIf you file complaint then your gand parents and aunt will come begging you to take it back not to ruin his future, emotional drama…Even you file a complaint, the chapter will not close suddenly, you will have to see his face multiple times assuming few hearings and all, and that will trouble you more…
Sometimes “forgive and forget” is best justice, he will have to pay definitely for his sin sooner or later.
So you focus on other priorities like studies and job in your life…
BAlways listen to your gut feelings.Post engagement, if you sense something is off, then don’t go ahead with marriage in the pretext of Baad me sab thik ho jayega… And call it off a marriage peacefully.
Listen 80% to your parents…
Don’t waste money on large marriage, make it a private ceremony with only 50-100 people which matter most…
Instead of discussing sex fantasies and all on first few meetings, discuss about finance and related responsibilities…
Like others have mentioned, post marriage, don’t involve parents from either side to solve your marital problems, it’s now husband-wife problems, so only you TWO have to deal with those…
Never share your intimate or 4-wall-closed things with ANYONE, initially we keep on discussing such things with our so called closed friends, please don’t do that…
Learn to accept that know you have tied the knots, so stop flirting around or spending time with opposite gender. That means you have to cut down your earlier so called sense of humour…
Finally, most importantly, believe in each other, dedicate to each other and commit to each other fully. That means you are a different person post marriage hence you have bring lot of changes in your daily habits or else the marriage will not sail long if you keep bringing your ego/attitude…
All of the above points are gender neutral…
