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Bpolice will make you the culprit first and then make the evidence and false statement as per their convenience. You will be forced to make deals which could have been avoided altogether.
take OP for example, he has offered 10k on the spot at the station, without any proof, where there is possibility that nothing has actually happened to the child, and they (parents and policeman) want to just abuse their connections to extort some money from OP.
always send friends as police cannot go that far to implicate them as well for a small thing. (unless FIR has been filed, and arrest warrant is also out)
Bnever go to the station yourself, send two friends Or a lawyer and a friend.always keep the voice recorder on.
common shit in india, never accept that it was your fault. at least luck is still in your side and nothing drastic has happened on the police side.
Bwhich service did you use with Air shipping,I have used the premium Blue-dart smart box service (twice, for laptop and monitor) that costs around 5-6K and its the best in terms of safety, although they don’t give any assurance but that is packed with cardboard shock absorbers and they themselves recommend buying a bag and cheap stiff foam to stuff the things in it for added protection.
but yeah its much safer to carry them yourself either by train or air.
Bi truly empathise with you, draw clear boundaries on how you want them to be financially, a boundary means a condition and a consequence,let her know how much you are affected by her stockholm syndrome and your dad by his reckless gambling on the market.
put your foot down on how it should be. If all goes to vain still go ahead with no-contact.
BYes it didn’t count as a loan, she paid your tution by transfering that amount to you.no one has time or energy to sue someone (heck your own child) for repayment of a verbal loan agreement.
But the bigger question is why does she get you depressed, can your dad act as an mediator and let her know your feelings,
you gotta try to talk it out, Ghosting your own parents should be the last last resort.
