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  • in reply to: Marriage cancelled at last minute due to “dowry” #18328
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      April 9, 2025 at 11:17 am
      Yes it is. Breaking off any engagement for whatever reason is legal. Also they wanted a big wedding. That’s not dowry

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        April 6, 2025 at 4:44 am
        Of course you need to pay child support. Only deadbeat fathers think about not paying child support.

        in reply to: School forcing all students to buy their 5th uniform #22016
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          April 3, 2025 at 1:14 pm
          I don’t think CBSE would do anything considering it isn’t anything to do with teaching a curriculum

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            April 1, 2025 at 12:13 pm
            Nobody in my family except the men or anyone on my mom’s side of the family have middle names. It has caused no issues for us in any form whatsoever. Middle names are an outdated concept in the other parts of india outside South i think.

            Oh also my half of my mom’s side is in Mumbai they had no issues during any process

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              March 31, 2025 at 7:33 pm
              Hopefully that’s what they are doing. We will only find out the next time they decide to show up.

              in reply to: Sister in law threatening false allegations #25351
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                March 31, 2025 at 7:31 pm
                We already do jaaj pataal informally but that isn’t even is it? People are good to your faces and show their true faces once the deed is done. Dowry cases, violence cases, fake cases everything

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                  March 29, 2025 at 1:35 pm
                  I don’t know the entire details of the court case. We are not in touch for months. What i do know is banks are making it tough for them. As far as rental agreement is concerned the owners don’t live in the country they are only here for the court case and the leasing was handled through a broker who i think was involved in it because a couple of months later two men and women showed up late at night claiming they lived upstairs and how dared me locked the building entrance from inside. They were drunk and everything and knew they were lying. They were there for one night stand if i got the reading right. Before that couple who did that scam. The owners never had any kind of issues all the tenants were good family people. It makes me think. Did they change the brokers to end up in this condition?

                  It still doesn’t change that their address is the loan papers and banks are harassing them probably because they can’t reach the fraud

                  in reply to: Sister in law threatening false allegations #25314
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                    March 29, 2025 at 8:10 am
                    You should have never ignored the ref flags before the marriage.

                    Lawyer up already and start collecting proofs

                    Personally I think when we do a background check for any kind of marriage arranged or love it should not be on surface level people lie all the time. It should be done via PI.

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                      March 29, 2025 at 3:42 am
                      Yup. Because multiple banks have seized the home because the tenant that used that address in the forms and then fled. So as far as those banks are concerned the house belongs to the fraud not to the owner. It’s a floor. you should just see just how many tapes the entrance to the home has. It has a two door entrance and you name the bank it will have the tape belonging to them. The banks did do any police verification at first before giving the loan and then started harassing us coming along with police after he fled saying what kind of neighbour are you that you know nothing. One day my mom just snapped at the bank officer. They never came back again.

                      So if the husband had put OPs address and she doesn’t make payments there is a big chance that it can happen

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                        March 28, 2025 at 5:56 pm
                        Possibly seized of home in case of non payment. If the house doesn’t belong to her and is renting then the homeowner is screwed too. Happened to upstairs neighbours

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                          March 28, 2025 at 5:49 pm
                          Unfortunately you will have to go to court for this with a good lawyer.

                          Some fraud came to stay above us and took multiple loans from different banks and never paid a single EMI. Police and bank officials harassed us for months for their information which we didn’t have because we never even saw them in the first place our doors were always closed and they were there for barely two weeks. Now the owner is fighting in the court to get his home back which was seized by all the banks and it has been difficult for him because of lack of proof.

                          You will have to fight it out in the court with proofs involved. Start collecting whatever you have and find a really good lawyer and also file for a divorce. If he is refusing to pay the EMI then ask for double the alimony that will cover the loans. Don’t let him go free.

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                            March 26, 2025 at 7:03 am
                            Yes she will be entitled to it. I know a case going on where the husband is refusing to continue paying the emi for the house they bought after the divorce. The better thing here is to sell the property and split the money between the two. I don’t know what will happen in your case because the emi is in your father’s name but i think you can do the same thing here.

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                              March 25, 2025 at 3:01 pm
                              Legally her property has to be divided 5 ways unless she writes a will where she decides who gets the property. I think. You are only entitled to 20% of the property without a will after her death from what I have seen around here

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                                March 23, 2025 at 3:56 pm
                                Before society you need municipality permission which they are not going to give. Municipalities are extremely strict about what can be built and not built after a construction is complete. Especially years later. Like in delhi a kothi can only go up to four floors building treating the terrace as a fifth floor and building would get it demolished without permission

                                in reply to: Help with the marriage #35720
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                                  March 14, 2025 at 9:07 am
                                  You will have to move and then get married there. Even then there is no guarantee you will be completely out of danger from your parents side. The only safe option I see is moving outside India and then marrying so that your parents can’t reach you and kill both of you

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