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CCan share some truly staggering and outright catastrophic fuckups committed by the authorities with a mind-numbing level of impunity. If these ever come to light, there will be no escape—heads will roll.CReally ! Supreme Court Judge on your side for connection and still you had to fface 7 days in jail. What is your profession. As a corporate employee, I fear ,career is over, it would show up in background checks.CAt times it does feel like that. !!
Life has been reduced to being a personal slave and ATM, and path to freedom is full of thorns.
CThat is exactly my fear, and she knows it too. I am in a difficult situation career wise, and dont want to risk any personal shitshow spilling over to job.already in mid 40s – If it takes 5-10 years of gutter to reach the other side of the tunnel, its demotivating anyway.
I just wish , she sees the life ahead and does it peacefully.
CKids -twin boys 12. Not ideal, bust still much better than current situation. The whole issue is co-operation of the wife. She wants it both ways– facade of happy marriage to the world, while not taking any steps towards reconciliation either.C1. Alimony is not an issue for me. I just want my life and peace.
2. How does doing anything anyone does or not do help with alimony. have you seen this[https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/comments/1jkdial/45_cases_filed_by_wife_husband_proved_cruelty_but/](https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/comments/1jkdial/45_cases_filed_by_wife_husband_proved_cruelty_but/)
CClarification – If I leave, and I have tried that , she does not hurt the children directly, but stops sending them to school, claiming why should she take the efforts when I am not. Also does not want to give me custody at any cost.CThanks Devashish for real practical advice.Is there a possibility to get away and get protection (restraining order sort of ). Ensure husbands peace is not disturbed by wife when he is living seperately, then divorce proceedings taking its sweet time dont bother so much.
Husband does not mind paying the expenses for wife and kids as usual, or even more.
CBroken as in, completely different value systems, outlook towards life. No talking terms , let alone intimacy. Sometimes , there are shouting matches that turn abusive. No physical abuse though from either side.
