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CDamn semiconductor, you’re really a visionary man . Impressive.
problem isn’t a ‘man ‘ , it never was I don’t doubt that you won’t be an incredible father but to safeguard all kids from sexual abuse & exploitation they have to ,they have to think of everyone & that does collateral damage and gross generalization. Most men won’t harm anyone ever .
Also this system works for rich not for justice so they can get away with anything even after being dragged to courts , these NGOs & associations have to think of them also.
It doesn’t automatically makes kids safe , this also is because of ‘ lack of maternal influence ‘ & protection from misconduct. – outdated today.
You know what I think it’ll only go away with LGBTQ marriage rights legalization & them being able to adopt kids as their existence dismantles ” gender patriarchal roles ” , same patriarchy that suggest that a man can’t see woman as human , that by default a woman knows how to be parent – not true .
There are too many cases of men doing stuff to their gf’s child , cousins/brother’s child / married their daughter – incest & power dynamics are messed up , in 2018 a man in MP adopted & married a 14 y/o , later prosecuted under POCSO but it does damage to kid .
Also narcissistic & psychopaths seem so normal from outside , have respectable jobs and demeanour, inside all sorts of hurt and they break person to all extends possible it take survivors years to be near normal in human interaction they impairs human communication of their victims
Again women are also capable of it , this British- Christian laws on marriage have to go away .
CI think you would find : JIANKUI HE interesting. Look him up .>I believe in 5 years there would be artificial wombs, but the concerning part would be with legal system, I am hardware engineer and will switch to Biotech career in some years as I’m learning Bio (I’m totally an Engineer guy), but I was great with Bio though.
I’m not sure how that will go politically if you go outside of country as racism and laws , so called 1st world would easily invade & exploit but make it rigid and complicated even for normal legal browns .. maybe after certain amount of money I doesn’t matter as much.
& in india legally to safeguard women’s I think (& hope) women’s association would demand like protection laws .
I’m opposite bio students interested in core engineering & biotech .
CYeah man argument could have been more structured , I’m glad you mentioned prostitution, many feminist refer to surrogacy as ‘reproductive prostitution ‘ – turning the female body into renatble space for ruch couples genetic legacy [in india add caste to it ]. Womb renting is again reducing women to biological machinery for socio-economic upper class .You are risking organ &pelvic displacement & pregnancy is fatal for many despite tech advancements. There is no monetary compensation for it .It’s a class exploitation.
Legalization doesn’t mean to removal of exploitation there’s always a way around it especially when rich wants something. India was facing surrogacy tourism ,[white people so called 1st world exploiting indian women ‘3rd world yet again ] (india has one of earliest family planning plan adoption in 1950s – white american couple from silicon valley believed we should not be reproducing & they are superior etc , they managed to mass sterilize men here , we still are taught this as proud thing – i understand the significance but give us students historical context also ) . It was banned as ” reproductive trafficked ” – rightfully so.
even medically forced 5 year gap won’t help body of woman who’s paying the cost uts not just physical labour. You can limit one pregnancy per surrogate but since in legal terms here women have bodily autonomy they can’t be forced to terminate, there’s also parenthood rights issues , how will database keep track of pregnancy per person if they hide it for bribe etc .
I’m not pro prostitution- it’s facilitates abduction, kidnapping , minor & child trafficking for being reduced as object of sexual exploitation for male pleasure and fetishes , it’s again a man can buy access to woman’s body & these women always being ones that were denied education , states away not understanding language or what’s happening to them , ripped of their homes at early age , sold by their fathers or husbands, they have no way out, no rehabilitation, jobs or finances to gt them out , no licence that can ensure age and sexual safety, women catch more severe STDS , UTIs and more painful ones . Also it will overlapmwith substance abuse for obvious reasons which again we don’t really have establishments .
They are not there by enthusiastic or even informed consent. It profit off of poor female diposability .
Even tho I agree Some people as adult both male & Female prostitute want to work & many countries do have better regulations with sexual rights & autonomy- strip clubs & brothels verify ages and are there for help with sexual misconduct , to prevent exploitation. But that’s not reality here no where near this , “demand ” especially for minors kids or young women (thats justrape ) is supplied by nothing remotely ethical.
Even in porn industry – drugging , non- consensual acts , vouyerusim ,violence against women sold as kink , young girls are trafficked from different countries into these , held hostage many times by men known also & across states , they are drug addicts , most exit themselves or od , die early & men usually make all the money they get paid a wage labours . There’s child r tapes & nobody bats an eye , major industry stood against law that needed age 18 as requirements verification of actors.
Rise of people like anderw tate who teach men if she (wife or gf ) really loves you ask her to do SW or OF for you , so you guys can make enough to make comfortable living and if she obliges , do that make money and dump her , not saying women are dumb and can be hypnotized but they usually handout human manipulation tactics &being guy she wants for months & months . In their courses.
although physically safer platform platforms like OF piss people off because creator – a woman (top 1 %) makes direct money , chat rooms exited before but it was men using lonely men to make money .
In india [THE ASSISTED REPRODUCTIVE TECHNOLOGY (REGULATION) 2021](https://dhr.gov.in/document/acts-circulars/assisted-reproductive-technology-regulation-act-2021)
What’s Allowed Now
-Commercial surrogacy = completely banned. No money can exchange hands.-Altruistic surrogac only
(for married Indian heterosexual couples)
– Only a close relative (sister, sister-in-law) can be a surrogate—no payment allowed.– Surrogate must be married + already have a child (to prove she’s not desperate).
– Single women, LGBTQ+, foreigners = banned.
I hope I make sense.
Csurrogacy is unethical in general . & banned because it came a cost of pood women who’d carry pregnancies without much gap between , for money , one can argue it’s late stage capitalism as everything about a woman & her Flesh is commodfied if mother lacks essentials like calcium body takes it from her bones to give it foetus for development, body goes through severe trauma & tearing …One can say well they signed up for it – rich women don’t commercialize their body for money and someone who’s barely making money isn’t consenting , they’re out of options .( miners don’t mine out of passion or their “choice “).
How about in few years there would be artificial womb/ full ectogenesis – it’s not anywhere rn especially for commercial use but Singapore, china (not strict laws laws ) , Switzerland , some US states would have them , you can even edit genes .
if you have made up your mind ,
I think you should do I at 27 , your PFC would be developed by then & till then focus on finances & legal route educate yourself on parenting/child care , psychology etc .
Cget evidence as much aa possible , some type of security installation even better althoughi don’t know how you’ll do that if he does other things like animal abuse or financial inconsistencies etc look for themnarcissistic people are charming & clever .
op don’t ever get emotional around this man it’ll fuel him more.
you guys need court order even if you stay separately , so you can do shit if shows up at your new place .
don’t diminish your hurt becuase someone somewhere has it worse , it’s horrific everything that has been happening to you and your mother , everything you feel about this man and this situation is valid , it’s not your fault . I believe in you , you’ll get out of this . your exhaustion is understandable.
I’m not a law person unfortunately but I can helpmyou with online mental health resources.
