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CI’m not trying to overreact. I’m genuinely concerned about my future. I do have a fear of death, and as time passes, I feel it approaching closer. I just want to live fully and do the things I dream of before it’s too late. Right now, I’m feeling a lot of confusion, and that’s why I asked this question — to find some clarityCHonestly, I don’t feel good thinking about waiting for my parents’ death. It doesn’t sit right with meCI’ve been considering content creation, trading, and starting my own real estate business. Since you seem experienced, have you seen anyone deal with similar doubts? Are these actually viable options, or just hyped-up trends?”CI actually tried introducing products on my own.
But I still needed help from workers like painters and wood carving people, and I had to manage paying them too.
Even after all that, when the products were sold, my father kept all the profits — didn’t share a single penny with me.
That’s the real problem here.
But thanks for suggesting me
CHaving a family business might look lucky from outside, but it’s my father’s dream, not mine. I’m just being forced to fulfill his dreams.He keeps comparing me to my relatives — like their sons who are 30-35, married, settled — but I don’t want that life.
Born, school, college, business, marriage, children, death — that’s not living for me. It’s just surviving.
I want to build something of my own, something that actually makes me feel alive.
CI do have a younger sister, she’s just 18, so right now she’s not in a position to help.About my YouTube channel — honestly, it’s a bit cringe and not something I feel proud to share yet. It’s half-monetized though, and I’m working hard every day to improve it and build something better.
CI did try to ask for salary, but he said, Go wherever you want, but once you leave, don’t come back.CMy father says, “Sab kuch tumhara hi hoga jab hum mar jayenge.”
But right now, I just work like a labourer — from 9 AM to 6 PM making dining tables, sofas, mandirs, etc. Then from 7 PM to 9 PM, I work again in the showroom doing deliveries and managing small tasks.My father still controls everything — manufacturing, showroom, payments — while I have zero control. The showroom workers are around 40-50 years old, and they feel uncomfortable taking instructions from me because of my young age — their ego doesn’t allow them to listen.
Honestly, my life feels stuck and hopeless right now.
