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CAs such itâs best to have an in person consultation with an expert, that being said this is India after all, you get an idiot for a judge who will give you the middle finger and it wonât matter what you did right or wrong youâre screwed over.
The best way Iâve seen things work out is when the assets exist completely separate from you, in laymanâs terms you store them in a parents name or friends name, you canât be asked to pay something someone else owns. This works well for large amounts like yours, idk what your asset break up is but if itâs land/real estate etc then this is a viable strategy
Now you have the second issue of assets acquired during marriage, this oneâs much harder to circumvent ofc, Iâd always suggest that nothing should be joint ownership because the court will again more than likely give you the middle finger, whatâs hers is hers, what belongs to both is hers, and whatâs yours will become hers. Either own it in your name if you want to risk it or again use the above mentioned advice.
As to how you can shift your assets legally is a question better answered by an expert. Offshore storage is good but you still own a declared amount thatâs traced to you, like someone else mentioned you can be asked to pay but they canât forcibly pull it out that easily from a foreign country.
If you get a consultation you can mention my tips or get better ones from them too, Iâm just telling you generally Iâm no expert in law or finance
CYes since you got married in India it would still apply. My best advice is to either handle this in a foreign court or do it online for India but do not set foot in the country no matter whatCYou only throw insults at me, still waiting for any kind of proper response to my points. Government interference is unnecessary was my take, whatâs your reason for supporting it? When the current system has been a hot exploitative mess that categorically fails to address culprits and spends its entire time and resources extorting people who have 300 false allegations against them?CChild marriages are an issue because they involve children not because theyâre marriages, it would fall under a child abuse issue, I was pointing out to the previous commenter that dragging millions of adults across court cases doesnât solve child marriage in any way, child marriage is a separate issue altogether and irrelevant to this argumentAnd second I live abroad, my parents have been dead for years, no need to drag their names into this lol
CLol what? Iâm neither into tech nor do I live in India anymore, I could care less about what goes on there. Still every man is a man and I would rather stand with them than watch them suffer like this. If you have anything valid to counter that isnât based on your emotions Iâm open to hearing your thoughts.If my words were too difficult to understand I can sum it up this way ; the problem was created due to extreme interference and solving it as it stands is damn near impossible hence getting rid of it altogether is one possible solution.
C1. Child marriages arenât legally recognized, irrelevant point2. Just answered your question, you have the choice to not marry someone who asks for in the first place
3. If strong independent full grown adults can still be âforcedâ into major life decisions you have much bigger flaws to worry about in life. The government canât fix your lack of a spine
CMaybe Iâm just in a bad mood today but the simple solution would be for the government to stop sticking its nose into everyoneâs business, marriage is supposed to be a social contract not a legal labyrinth, if you cant commit to someone without needing the government to hold a gun to everyoneâs head youâre too childish to be married.If full grown adults cannot make sound financial choices and secure their own lives marriage really shouldnât be their concern. People in relationships break up all day everyday and find a way to get tf on with their lives, because you donât have the government trying to milk 7 generations of court money from them. Just go your own way and move tf on with your life.
Oh and btw, a âsacrificeâ by definition has to be selfless, if you expect something in return you didnât make a sacrifice you made a trade off. If youâre that untrusting of who you married donât fucking get married. You have the choice of not paying dowry and not getting married but instead theyâd rather pay if then cry victim
CIf he married the second woman without divorcing the first then the marriage is automatically void, she doesnât get shit from you.Now that Iâm saying this out loud this may be a bit of a life hack lmao
CLook at the requirements to become a judge, youâd be geriatric by the time you actually get there, these are the problematic generation anyhow who have created the current system that manages to punish every innocent and release every criminal posssible. How else do you expect the rich to line their pockets? đThereâs no shortage of lawyers and law students but most lead a shit life, the majority of lawyers arenât leading a life from suits, go to any municipal court. They are still using typewriters and filing documents for 100rs a piece.
The only shortage this country has is that of young people in high positions of the government
Itâs a game of money, if you donât create a problem you canât sell a solution. If no one gets sick you canât run hospitals, if everyone has a house no one will pay rent, if everyone has food no one will pay for it. If you solve cases in 1 day you canât drag it out for 7 generations for lawyer fees
CTheyâre the ones committing the crime here, you can chill out, just ignore him theyâre all talk no cockCThe unfortunate truth is that the only death penalties handed out are those that come to media attention.The second thing is that the law isnât favoring men, it doesnât even recognize that they can be raped, a lot of times the evidence is very circumstantial and questionable altogether, but in a he said she said case she will always be believed, start hanging them all on accusations alone and youâll have the whole 498A shit show all over again with women abusing the law to settle personal grudges.
Also the constitution protects you against inhuman and cruel punishments, pretty sure the death penalty comes under that. The last two major hangings were kasab and the nirbhaya culprits, one wasnât Indian and a Terrorist responsible for 100s of deaths, the latter made noise in media thatâs all, i
CYes if it is in your name it can be claimed from you, keep it under the name of a parent/sibling/friend or even company name.CThe men are asking for advice and taking precautions against said laws while the women are whining and complaining about things being everyoneâs fault except their own. Nothing new here. You have an entire legal system rigged in your favour so imagine how badly you need to fuck up for the system to say nope.Thousands are sharing the same experience and you can conveniently ignore all of them because everyone who disagrees with you is misogynistic. When a woman harasses and abuses her husband to the point of suicide she deserves every bit of criticism and shaming that society has. She should be held up as a warning label and every woman like that should be completely avoided and kept away from marriage.
CYes this is exactly what a divorce lawyer is for. You should most certainly remove her name from all documents before even having a separation, go a step further and shift the investments to someone elseâs name. Have proof of her behavior and abuse for sure, no one will believe you just because you said it, get the proof and make sure other people know about it, friends, family everyone should know it.And yes being Muslim does matter because most of the concerning and stupid laws actually come under the Hindu marriage act which isnât applicable in your case so youâll have a *slightly* easier time
Last bit of advice is a bit unethical but Iâd highly recommend that you not try to act all honourable and perfect in this situation, the system is rigged against you as it is and your opponent can and will play dirty, put your ego aside and donât be afraid to do the same, remember she can and likely will accuse you of abuse and domestic violence so you shouldnât hold back from accusations of your own either
