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CHe accused you of stealing 5 Lakh.
On what basis he did?
That’s some serious allegation to make.Run as far as possible from her n her family.
This sounds like a huge red flag to me.
Today its 5L , tomorrow it will be more in terms of alimony or many other ways.And if you were very clear from beginning about marriage thing n told her as well still she communicated it to parents without your consent. That’s a serious breech of trust. Also her father got your mobile number, she is the one who has given it to him. Right? She knew situation at home backfired n she could have stopped your involvement in her family drama until everything had cooled down. That’s second level breech of trust.
Everything seems so bad and seem like they just need a way to escort money out of you. Nothing else.
Please safeguard yourself Op and take care.CWhy you will give her more money after taking loan?
Is she your responsibility anyhow?
Relationship is supposed to be equal not one way.And the part where you said she might do something to her (isn’t this is just emotional blackmailing)
I am sure once you will try to cut ties with her, she will come running to you crying and with other threats, and considering how much emotionally invested you are there, you might take her back and this cycle will never end.If her family is not able to make ends meet , then she should get more serious in her life and job.
At this point, she is just free loading you. She knows it and taking full advantage of you.
Now that you have realised this, suggesting you to cut ties immediately (coz her problems will never end), move on and never fall for emotional manipulation (in case she tries).
Starting today stop giving her more pocket money.
This is not going to do well for you.
