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April 5, 2025 at 9:52 am

This has been happening since the first year of marriage, 4 years have passed, you think it’s jumping to divorce?

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April 5, 2025 at 9:49 am

Asked multiple times for problems, Even a year ago everyone in the family sat together and asked him about why did he took the loans, did someone scammed him? Did something happened to him? Multiple chances were given,went to couple counselling with him, the thing about helping him is he lies , he says different stories to different people ,his parents act confused everytime when I ask if he has any bad things happened in his life. Inorder to make him happy, I sacrificed my job and to make him feel secured went to stay with his parents thinking he would feel ease at home. Never made him pay any of his bills, never took any money from him, even helped me register for multiple exams( which he requested )by sending him money, tried to initiate sex multiple times, rejected every time.we both went to sexual expert , he willingly took medicine, I paid for all the bills of treatment, even when his work get hectic I sat down with him and helped him in his work. Clearly warned him and year ago not to take money from anyone else or through loans and don’t drink and he still repeated it after 6 months. Also I took him to vacation at most destinations ,took all the expenses for that. What else I have to do to fix this marriage when the other party doesn’t put the bare minimum effort of communication.

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April 5, 2025 at 8:12 am

No, I found some porn sites tabs unclosed and all of them were woman.

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April 5, 2025 at 7:25 am

Thanks, the lawyer I consulted also said the same about contested divorce and he feels that it would take long time in my case and kind of made me scared.

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April 5, 2025 at 7:12 am

No DV but he has yelled at me in several places when I asked about his financial conditions and drinking habits, that’s it, not planning for DV charges , I just want to get out of this mess, not even claiming maintanence or alimony.

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April 5, 2025 at 7:09 am

Didn’t found any that kind of apps in his phone

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April 5, 2025 at 7:08 am

Asked for mutual divorce to him and his family, and his father pleaded to give them 6 months so that they could put him into treatment and fix the issues .

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April 5, 2025 at 7:04 am

Asked for divorce multiple times, he refuses to give it, even involved a mediator, but he still claims he has made a mistake and will resolve it.

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