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DYou may take them to marriage counseling/ Physcologist.
Beating ones partner is not normal. I maybe angry with my partner, but I will not beat her , I may shout/raise my voice at her but certainly l will not raise my hand at her.
Getting angry with her husband by your family, will bring more trouble for your maid. Husband will in turn take it out on your maid.
Counsel them, understand why the husband beats her. Talk nicely with her husband, try to understand him.
Tell him that his wife actions may make him angry, but it’s not good to beat your wife.
Tell him – Using violence against your life partner is wrong, it’s not moral it’s against religion. What will God think of it? Things like that. As if you are explaining a child
DNo body will help her. Even you won’t.Don’t increase her troubles with getting. Don’t file FIR, police doesn’t give a F about her, she will be the one visiting courts/police station again and again.
What if her husband gets irritated and throws her away from his house?
You have no idea about the practical-Ness of a poor persons life.
Have you ever thought why she endures the physical abuse? Because she think Even if the man beats her, atleast she has roof over her head.
If you really want to help her, keep her and her kids(if any) in your house for rest of her life, feed her and give her security and if possible get her married to some other guy.
All these assess here saying NGO/Court/ FIR/ police etc want the maid to get into deeper troubles.
