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DWell honestly, that’s rather commendable of you. And I didn’t realise what kind of a relationship you were in. I don’t know what your job situation is at the moment. But given your history with her and how she treated you. If you really feel like you owe her, tell her to give you a year or so you can personally pay her back for it.
In the mean time talk to your friend and ask him honestly what’s going on as well. You said he’s moving to banglore for a job. So he’s probably having a whole lot of stuff to deal with himself. And ask him to start paying it off, even if it’s a 1000 or so every month if he can’t pay everything all at once.
Clearly neither is this neither legal advice or possibly even a popular advice.
You’re just stuck in a rough situation between your so called best friend (at the end of the day however awful he might be at returning money, there’s a reason you call him that) and your ex. I just personally wouldn’t go as far as dragging his parents and such into this, I mean she is more than justified to do so. But it would hurt that much more if it were you to do that.
Either ways, hope things get sorted for all you guys in the best possible way.
DAm sorry, but how does this concern you ? Take it as a warning and realise you’re better off not lending him money. As you apparently have previously experienced it yourself.But this has to do with your EX. And you were not involved. So as a good will gesture, you did reach out to him and asked him about it. But you definitely don’t need to act as her proxy / loan collection agent. The best thing you can do is distance yourself from this situation, if you want after letting her know you tried. But yeah.
Move on already!!! Before you get dragged into needless drama.
DHonestly, first of all am really sorry you went through this. And the laws are pretty messed up here and if people stated that as the issue. I would have totally understood. But the lack of empathy and mockery of the situation is just insane.NAL, so really not qualified enough to give you any kind of legal advice. But I just hope you can get some kind of resolution/closure of the situation and feel better soon. Take care.
DThis sub is so messed up.A few months back a woman ignored an Amazon guy’s calls and made him wait for almost 30 minutes outside. Eventually opened the door to recieve the delivery. And the annoyed delivery guy said “I don’t know what you are doing inside to not notice the calls” and left. For that comment she filled a sexual harrasment complaint and dragged him to the police station. And have him apologize and beaten up.
And everyone on this sub and few others, championed her as a hero.
But now a guy gets point blanked asked this crazy Effin question. And everyone on here is saying there’s no problem, just move on.
WTH !!!!
