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Divyastar28
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March 24, 2025 at 5:20 pm

hey, thanks so much for apologizing! I am really sorry too if I sounded a bit harsh or came on too strongly – but i am sure you can understand how this can be a tough decision, and it is something close to my heart :/

but once again, thanks a lot! i really, really appreciate that you apologized, it means a lot!

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Divyastar28
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March 24, 2025 at 2:04 pm

what…..

I am sorry – have you ever been through something like this? you have no idea what she may be feeling right now that she’s hesitant to immediately take actions and respond to police interrogation which will probably point out her “flaws” and “mistakes”…

why are you acting as if you don’t know how prejudiced the society is towards every fucking woman. I don’t want to make this a man x woman issue but don’t tell me what to do because I am a woman and i should realise better lol

It’s because I am a woman that I am saying that she can take the space she needs before taking some action which will reopen fresh wounds.

Guilting her into this because it’s a societal responsibility is the worst possible approach and will traumatize her further.

Do not infantalize her – she can make the right decision without you or her boyfriend deciding on her behalf.

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Divyastar28
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March 24, 2025 at 8:36 am

hey, i am a lawyer and I have seen how gruelling these proceedings can be for the victim.

Please be supportive of what your girlfriend wants and let her take her time to approach authorities if needed. Avoid pressurising her into this.

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