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FI mean if you have to blame someone, blame the laws. Cruelty is only a ground for divorce. Nothing more or less. Same for the alimony, the sum is calculated based on a lot of things and the calculation method can be considered somewhat vague but again, alimony and maintenance are rarely affected by grounds of divorce unless the women has some source of income or the husband can prove she can sustain herself to reduce the alimony to some extent. The amount you see here? In reality much of it isn’t paid once the case is done. It will be settled outside the court. People often forget that judges are bound by laws and they can only follow it, they want it or not.FProblem with such evidence is it’s permissibility. Depends on the judge but most of the times evidence obtained through such means will get you nowhereFThe problem here as ig others mentioned, not the divorce but the further proceedings. Your father will have to pay alimony in most cases, unless there is a certain disqualifying measure on your mother, that being both her earning enough to not need your father for sustenance and abusive towards children for custody issues.
Also collect evidence, if possible more substantial. Chats are questionable nowadays and can be disputed.
Now here is the kicker if you are really serious. Don’t let your mother know anything about it unless the divorce is filed. Who files the case matters and more so the foundation of it. Abusive towards children and unfit for raising them should be a primary contention with adultery.
Also observe your father and if you see if he is going through, ask him to go for a therapist. It may be an important point during the case if cruelty is proven towards your mother and regular visits to a therapist can be used there.
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