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  • in reply to: An abusive father #27194
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      March 26, 2025 at 5:49 pm
      And also, dunno if you’re from Kolkata or not but if you’re from here then idk how much the police can help , or the court. And it may take a long time. Hence escape first, don’t totally depend on law and order

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        March 26, 2025 at 5:43 pm
        Hi dude , my life’s been quite similar and the most important thing to do here is bari theke onno kothao asroy newa. I don’t know if there’s any ngo that can help but what my mom did was – she took me and amra alada thaka shuru kori , and yes , my mom didn’t have any earnings back then. Kichu savings ba ja ache- na thakle kono trusted relative er theke dhar newa , but also depends on your relationship with your mom’s side of the family. But it’s very crucial je tomra ei situation e involve er theke beshi kibhabe alada howa jaye sheta dekho. Because 90% etai hobe that no matter how much you’d try to explain things to your father, he won’t understand. Jodi bojhar hoto ajke eta hoto na.
        Now if nothing’s working out , the only way is that you’re in 11th , work hard to get your mom and sister out of this situation after two years.
        But believe me though, It’s crucial for you guys to move out somehow. 11th and 12th pcmb is difficult enough and you do need a sane environment to study.
        Now about the money factor, if it feels like there isn’t enough , biswas kor taka chole ashe obhab thakleo. School fees and books er jonneo. Ekbar just shahosh kor, that’s all . Onek dokan e vacancies o thake cashiers and all er where you won’t need high qualifications. I don’t know auntie’s financial background but if she doesn’t have it then there’s options like such.
        And previous post e dekhlam that in laws are being supportive of your dad, which was literally the same as my case, hence , speaking from experience, ekhan theke berono ta somehow is important as support is very limited from IRL people.

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