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  • in reply to: Got to know guy i was talking to is married #15546
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      April 14, 2025 at 4:53 am
      I think you’re being a bit critical of OP with your point no 2. I don’t think OP knew he was married. You can make point 2 if OP knew he was married and still went for it. People don’t come with red flag flying high on their head. After know someone better we come to know that the person is a red flag.

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        March 21, 2025 at 4:18 am
        Normalize prenups!

        in reply to: Sexual Assault by Brother in Law #53387
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          February 16, 2025 at 7:13 am
          If a snake bites you, would you go after the snake asking and understanding why he bit you or would you first help yourself heal ?
          I’m sorry for what you went through. But analysing, and wanting closure in such situations through confronting your assaulter rarely helps. This is coming from an assault survivor. So first focus on healing the parts of you which felt violated, hurt. Let your wound heal, and after you’re healed you can confront him. The only difference between confronting him now and when you’re healed is that once you’re healed, his reaction will not bother you as much as it will now.

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