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April 13, 2025 at 7:37 pm

I don’t hear abt this from anyone but taboo ppl preaching abt gods gift on earth. “The problem isn’t the abuser,the victim”

That shows your mentality lmaoooo. Enjoy your life if you are that sick in the head to show that.

You conveniently change your stance to stay in the “right”. Tf has internet to do with anything? The truth is the truth,has nothing to do with hate/love. But if I hate my abusers,I got many valid reasons that I do not need a man to mansplain me and this post is all abt it. Go say these rattafied points of yoirs(as if it’s a cult) to someone that has only posted abt action against such asshole parents. They’d really appreciate that.

Young and immature? Yeah we are called that cuz y’all can’t see us not wanting agr old toxicity that y’all had to bare. I wouldn’t give two shits abt some middle aged traditionalist being mad at me for living my life the way I want and exposing the truth. Keep crying.

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April 13, 2025 at 7:16 pm

A simple yet powerful advice is to- not give unsolicited advices when you do not know the persons situation and not preach abt gods gift on earth,the trauma you are affected by too by your lovely attitude XD,Trauma carrying “parents”! where ppl come for legal advices(especially). Please say this again to someone that posts here on abt getting abused by their egg/sperm donors alright? They’d love this.

Must feel smth to be in your mid life and arguing with someone unknown on the internet right,according to you who’s “immature and young” right? Big achievement right there.

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April 13, 2025 at 7:04 pm

Alright so first of all. You are no one to dictate how I live my life and whom I estrange myself from. You don’t know my story,you don’t know how they are so do not dictate as if you parents are gods gift on earth. I am not into your traditional “parents are god” kind of mindset. Since you have it and I understood a lot from your post history I am not even surprised that you stopped using logic in your reply LMAO. I am immature because I am thinking to cut myself off from abusive,toxic ppl? Cuz oh my gosh,they aren’t the perfect little family whose bs I am supposed to endure??? So sad!!
Try reflecting on your mindset instead of spilling bs wherever you go. Coming here with an open mind to see the legal side,not parental preaching but I did assume that I’d definitely encounter someone that did say that bs to me,and it happened to be you XD it’s actually funny that you ppl say this kinda stuff in legal subs as well,considering this place is supposed to have all kinds of abuse (I haven’t even listed of many things that have happened)

I am not going to go by your suggestion ofc cuz it does not fit my lifestyle.

I will be a living a very meaningful life -without them soon enough as soon as my begetters are outta the picture, for my mental peace(that your generation barely believes in/cares abt) so thank you very much. This isn’t wastage,it’s **clearance** of what actually needs to be present instead of age old generational trauma carrying toxicity 🙂

Grow up 🖤

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April 13, 2025 at 5:54 pm

I don’t understand why your tone is so condescending? I am looking out for my future here.

I posted it here so see if I got any loopholes in my plans,I’d have google just a second away to surf through and find out and I’d get some good points to ponder on but I am not going to appreciate nor tolerate such a dismissing thought process.

I am trying to be open minded here to try to see through my situation to have the best future possible for me but it isn’t easy surely looking at such a tone. I’d love it if my parents were capable enough to be a part of my future but they prove not to be,so I am going to continue looking through ways I can improvise the loopholes.

The whole post is regarding me asking and elaborating on abt how I want them to be away as much as possible and your point is regarding how I am “using” them to get/not get according to my needs? 😂

Nvm then lol!

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April 13, 2025 at 5:49 pm

The entire post I made was regarding how I could get more info in my situation from the experienced ppl around here,the reason why I didn’t surf google instead. So I don’t think this is about “not” understanding,I am **trying** to understand. So tho your comment helps highlight some key points that I have now added onto the list of problems to conquer,your comment is very dismissive. I have read abt this and I can definitely get into Stock and Investments even at my own age cuz I am not going to get into it like some businessperson lmao,it’d be on a very basic level till the time I have a good income to carry on if I’d like.

I am not sure if I am gonna require student loans or nah cuz if students are exceptionally good,they do get full scholarships for eg,Leaster B.Pearson International Scholarship(University of Toronto),University of Sydney does give scholarships to Indian students based on merits,etc. hard to get into,but possible. As for residency,etc,I can look through on what I can do abt it for the two years I have rn.(UBC international Scholard program of Canada covers this as well.). I am definitely doing my research to enlighten myself more and more.

-I love your last point,that I’d need them to help me whether I like it or not. Oh trust me,I’d love it if they were to agree but since they won’t,I will have to find myself the loophole that I require since I won’t let this kinda hindrance stop me from achieving my goal.

Regardless of your tone,I’d find some points to look into like residency,etc. so 🙂 <3

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April 13, 2025 at 1:15 pm

Building a profile as in? Like extra curriculars sorta thing/YouTube kinda stuff?

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April 13, 2025 at 1:14 pm

Do I require their signatures even if I don’t fall short for money? Or is there a way I can separate myself from them? Last I searched parental estrangement wasn’t legalised in India….

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