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February 22, 2025 at 3:14 pm

Thank you 😭 I think their entire community is still living in the 90s

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February 22, 2025 at 3:11 pm

We’ve noticed the girl’s father’s domineering behavior since day one. Even when she first met my brother, he was already trying to finalize the WEDDING DATE, insisting they marry by March or April THIS YEAR

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February 22, 2025 at 3:07 pm

It was a collective decision that my parents would first approve a potential match, and then my brother would meet her. He is comfortable with this arrangement. Regarding meeting locations, we never visited the girl’s house. The first meeting took place in a hotel, and the second was at my dad’s friend’s place.

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February 22, 2025 at 8:16 am

>Even if somebody is not interested in a particular proposal, he/she may talk with the prospect just to see if there is some chemistry or they like something about each other.

EXACTLY! He spoke with her because our parents assured him she was a nice girl, but he found her emotionally immature. They barely communicated during this time. Both the girl and her family knew that nothing was finalized between them. Their behavior stems from him meeting her in person and then rejecting her, which goes against their community norms.

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February 22, 2025 at 6:44 am

Will do, thanks

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February 22, 2025 at 6:42 am

Ikr. Thank goodness my brother rejected their proposal

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