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II dont understand how people can do such things. Good for nothing scumbags.
Only thing this guy can do is harass you. Whenever you try to sell this land and he gets to know he will try to create doubts in the buyers mind and even though your papers sound like they are all right but when buyers see a mad man with the original papers making wild claims it can dissuade them.
His goal is to be paid off but fuck that. I say let him bark. To be on the safer side, engage a lawyer just so he can help in minimizing the harassment and safeguard you from all possible angles.
IThe normal course of action when papers are lost:1. File an FIR. This will create an official record of the loss. Keep a copy of the FIR.
2. Publish a public notice – preferably in two papers, Hindi and English. In the notice you must declare the loss of the property papers and state your intention to apply for duplicates. Keep a copy of the newspapers with you.
3. Apply for a certified copy of the documents from the sub-registrars office.
However, it is always preferable to have the original documents with you if you ever plan to sell, so keep searching for the papers and asking your uncle from time to time.
II live in a high-rise and I’m a lifelong dog lover, currently a parent to two little Yorkies and a young child. So I understand both perspectives.First, what breed is your dog? If it’s a large one, even the most well-trained dog (who may seem perfect to you) can make parents uneasy when unleashed around kids. Please try to see it from their point of view. Children often overreact, but you can’t blame them, it’s a natural fear response.
My Yorkies are tiny and harmless, but some kids still get scared. Since I can’t predict who’ll be in the elevator, I always carry them in my arms. They don’t react at all this way even if someone happens to enter the elevator. Everyone has gotten to know them in my tower and loves them but I STILL carry them in my arms. If a staff member takes them out, they use the service lift. If I had a large dog I couldn’t carry or control 100%, I’d only use the service lift to take him down. Perhaps that’s something you can consider, your neighbors would likely appreciate the effort.
If, however, the neighbors remain adamant and push ahead with the complaint, your best option might be to consult a lawyer and deal with it legally. But that would make things tense. They might start trying to collect or “create” evidence against you, and one small misstep could lead to constant harassment. Having such a relationship with your neighbours can make things very toxic.
The better approach? Have a casual chat. Apologize for the incident, even if it was just a brief moment, and reassure them it won’t happen again. Stick to that promise and try using the service lift for walks. A bit of empathy and proactive effort can go a long way.
