You are 16. If you are living in an abusive environment, you will tend to look does love outside your home. You’re bf makes you feel seen, heard, cared for, loved etc and so you feel that this is love.
Its not. Its just a way of escaping from your current reality. I know cos I was in an abusive parental env myself.
Learn to love yourself, appreciate yourself, become self confident, increase your self esteem. Learn what you will accept for yourself, learn your boundaries. Then you will be able to see if your bf is worth it.
Love yourself first. That is the key.