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      April 17, 2025 at 4:16 am
      My sis is already at that age+we arnt doing extravagantwedding, it’s the dowry and tbh it’s less than wt others are demanding+he is a good guy that’s the reason we agreed.
      “It’s easy to blame her” bruhh,wt we have been facing u won’t truly understand…The main reason my dad agreed for marriage was to look after home and children,cook and do usual chores…out of which almost every work we are doing. Imagine u,ur dad,ur sis come home at 6pm after tedious work…and u start doing household chores too while ur stepmom is chilling out and not even moving a finger.
      Would u still say it’s easy to blame her?

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        April 16, 2025 at 8:37 am
        Thanks man!

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          April 16, 2025 at 8:14 am
          Thanks for ur help
          Wt would be the amount to pay her (just assumed value)
          Do we even have to pay amount of the pension?

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            April 16, 2025 at 8:11 am
            So it’s one time,or everytime?
            My dad earns around 65k

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              April 16, 2025 at 8:02 am
              Thanks for replying but Man i don’t have much expectations from her,I just don’t want to see my dad working in the office coming home and again cooking for us,cleaning the rooms and doing all shit work.
              We are trying our best too…like cooking for ourselves,cleaning etc but still my dad has to cook..and other.

              That’s the reason why I need real solution of it.
              Man read the post,I said she goes hospital almost every week…as a result we can’t save much and so I can’t afford to go psychologist for it.
              We are already in debt

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                April 16, 2025 at 7:58 am
                We have already spent alot on her so much that we don’t even have savings as of now…and we took up debts for my sis marriage…every week something or the other happens to her and hospital is another home for her,she can’t look after us,can’t do much chores either..
                Now coming to ur point,see we hardly save around 10k a month but these get used up for her hospital bills,and now we even have a marriage…so we don’t have much money either…if we were to pay alimony,she would definitely demand alot…which even we don’t have as of now,every month we won’t even save 5k too…and my dad’s pension will also be halved

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