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LYou do your thing. Stop worrying about the law. Don’t let fear of law stop you from taking care of your parents or moving Hometown.
Go to your hometown. Ask your wife to either move with you or make her own arrangements. Inform landlord in writing that you are moving to your hometown and hence will be vacating the Premises. Stop paying rent after you’ve moved out. Whatever unfolds afterwards is between your Landlord and your wife.
If she files a DV Case, accept the fact that your marriage has ended practically and fight it out. Take stand in court that you are ready to take her back which she will decline. In such case court will order you to pay rent.
When such order comes comply it.
In fear of law or an adverse order don’t give in beforehand and start paying money. It will only enable your wife to file more cases and extort you more.
Join a Men’s Rights Organisation, learn law and then take above steps knowing fully what’s going to transpire. Don’t depend on others for advice. Matrimonial Laws are easy enough.
LProving mental unstability is very difficult. The entire procedure can take upto 35 years if the OP keeps challenging it from Family to High to Supreme Court.Eg: Vinita Saxena vs Pankaj Pandit on 21 March, 2006 where marriage was done in 1993 and Husband was a Paranoid Schizophrenic. Divorce filed in 1994 and matter kept getting challenged until SC gave final order in 2006.
All of this in case of a Woman where court is already in favour of. You are a Man and Judiciary already is against you. It will balance the dangers you dace remaining married to a Mentally unstable woman vs the social ramifications of a Woman getting Divorced. And unless there is a direct threat to your life and limb, you won’t get divorced/marriage annuled.
Moreover as per recent ruling of Supreme Court Husband can be asked to pay Alimony under HMA 25 even in Void Marriages. So be ready to shell out lakhs or crores to ameliorate the pain of a Woman getting her marriage annulled due to you.
Better to join some Men’s Rights NGO and start learning the Law rather than filing Annulment.
Filing any such case without proper knowledge will be a disaster especially in light of the fact that you already are facing other cases from her.
Don’t forget she can also file another Maintenance Case of HMA 24 when you file Annulment. So don’t give fuel to the fire.
LThat’s how law is interpreted.You may refer to my message where I myself have called it Misogynistic but it is how it is.
Read few judgements related to maintenance and then call me wrong. Husband’s Employment or his wife’s earning potential is immaterial in case of CrPC 125, HAMA 18 etc. Man has to beg, borrow, steal but provide.
MRAs have actively campaigned against this Misogynistic attitude of robbing accountability to earn their livelihood from women and treating them like chattle who ought to be maintained. Sadly no Women’s Rights Group supported them.
LNALJudiciary believes Woman is a Burden and that it is the responsibility of a Man to maintain her. Yes it sounds misogynistic but that’s how Judiciary and Govt. treats women.
From birth upto her marriage, it is the father’s responsibility, after marriage it is the Husband’s marriage, after Husband’s death it is the father in law’s responsibility, after FIL’s death it is again the responsibility of the father of the woman and in the end it is the responsibility of the son.
Since you are the husband, Judiciary will say that it is the sacrosanct of a husband to maintain his wife. They will ask you to do beg, borrow, steal but pay maintenance.
So how to navigate maintenance cases? You need to learn laws and tactics. Join Men’s NGO and start attending trainings.
LYou can visit the [website ](https://www.saveindianfamily.org/) or can dial the Helpline Number or visit @RealSIFF Twitter handle and look at the BioLFalse cases are not the end of the world. Thousands of Activists of SIFF are living happier than ever with False Cases thanking their wives for introducing them to this world of MGTOW.So whether there are cases or not your life isn’t going to be destroyed. There are many opportunities to life. So never think of Suicide. Now with that cleared let’s think of next things.
Firstly think of only 15 days at a time. Join SIFF and take Mental Stress trainings.
Install CCTV in house and start documenting evidences. If emergency arises and you think you can’t live at all with your wife and you are going suicidal, run away from the house and take a separate rented home and talk to SIFF FC for further actions. However present conditions don’t look dire enough to run away.
Breathe and Live.
LContact SIFF. These problems require activism for solutions. You can’t solve them with proper procedure since Police doesn’t follow it.When you do Activism and think outside the box legally and psychologically you’ll get results.
Modern Problems require Modern Solutions.
LInstead of waiting for MRAs to contact you. Go and contact MRAs.SIFF has its own website where links to its groups are provided. You can even join SIFF groups from bio of @RealSIFF Twitter ID. You may call the helpline number too.
LYou may reach out to their spokesperson or directly call the helpline or call any FC. Refer to the website for list of phone numbers.LJoin Save Indian Family Foundation. You need psychological counseling and legal counseling.Remember that in Matrimonial Cases your Attitude and Psychological tactics have 90% importance. Legal is inly 10%.
Once you get hold of it, you’ll start being less stressed and will enjoy your life more.
LAgree to every demand of Wife and in-laws and you might escape unscathed.Wife wants to do adultery: Agree (Occasional Adultery is no ground to deny maintenance)
Wife got impregnated by her lover: Agree and Raise the child as your own (As per Section 112 of Indian Evidence Act, any child born to Wife while husband and wife were living together is the legitimate child of husband)
Wife wants separate house: Agree
Wife wants you to send your parents to Old Age Home: Agree
Wife doesn’t want to have sex with you: Agree (Marital Rape is a Crime and if you’ve kids your sex life doesn’t matter enough to grant you a divorce.)
Wife doesn’t want you to have sex with others while herself having sex with others and not allowing you to have sex with her: Agree and buy a Chastity Cage to enjoy the process (Adultery by Husband is Illegal under 498A. Adultery by Woman is Legal.)
Wife ties you up and forces you for sex while making cigarette burns on your body: Agree (A Husband committed suicide due to this. Rape of Man is Legal in India)
Wife wants to abort your child: Agree (Under MTP Act, Woman has ultimate choice to delete any and every fetus anytime)
Wife assaults you: Agree and try to enjoy it as a Masochist kink (Domestic Violence on Men is Legal)
Wife doesn’t want to take up your surname: Agree (If you disagree she will file Maintenance cases where she will take your surname)
Wife doesn’t want child to take up your surname: Agree (Better to get to see and hold your child than go to jail for False POCSO)
Wife cooks bad food: Agree (One Husband got his head smashed with stone for protesting against Saltless food)
Wife doesn’t cook food: Agree (A Husband had to rush to High Court to quash his 498A where wife alleged that she was harassed by being forced to cook)
Wife doesn’t want to study: Agree (A Trial Court convicted a Husband of 498A for harassing his wife to study. He had to goto High Court for relief)
Wife watches Porn: Agree (Revently High Court held that it is no ground for divorce)
Wife doesn’t want to live with you: Agree (High Courts have held that wife doesn’t need to establish reasonable reason for staying separately before demanding maintenance)
LNALWithdraw Divorce case. You are attracting DV, 498A, CrPC 125, HMA 24 and other cases.
Join SIFF and learn laws first. Learn how Courts operate. Visit nearby Family Courts and JMFC Courts and spend an entire day there. Then take an informed decision.
It is common knowledge that you never get divorce by filing divorce. If you want divorce, don’t file it. It is a counterintuitive approach but it works.
