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MI am tagging u/DeepikaNBhardwaj. Please reach out to her if you need help finding a lawyer.
Deepika Ma’am – case seems to involve Delhi, Haryana and Rajasthan. OP may need to approach HC or SC to get investigation moving. Please advise.
M*Not a lawyer.*Are you sure the cameras are audio enabled? It could just be a rumor deliberately spread by the principal to keep everyone on their toes.
MNot legal advice, but is it possible that the landowner and builder are acting together? This new case by landowner can be a calculated tactic. It’s possible that the deed transferring the property to the builder was purposely made with defects so that the landowner can retain a claim to the property.M> But honestly… the damage was done.I think you answered your own question. Walk away and don’t look back. You will heal and recover from this.
MRemind him about the Puja Khedkar case. She joined the UPSC using forged certificates. Later she got caught.MYes, I can understand how you must be feeling.I have been seeing a number of people marketing “investment” opportunities to the NRIs. These opportunities are like farms, commercial rental properties, local business partnerships etc.
They heavily play on the average NRI person’s desire to have an emotional connection with their home country/state and their desire to have a stable base in India and establish a steady income stream. Because the NRI doesn’t have local knowledge, these people can easily trap them in these problematic properties. They target people through community organizations and the like.
Don’t struggle with this issue on your own. Pull in all the people who marketed this property to you, whoever facilitated the transaction, the old owner, everyone. They all are complicit in this fraud. If you are involved in community organizations, raise it there. Threaten to file a case on all of them unless they get the tenant out. Raise a big hue and cry. Otherwise they will let you struggle with this on your own and move on to the next victim.
MI’m not looking to criticize you. I am just curious, if you can go back in time, what would you have done differently? Do you feel the people around you misled you?MI agree with the advice that you have given.But I feel a rift in the family is inevitable, even if there is no divorce. I can sense that OP absolutely hates her mother obviously. So she will want to be independent of the mother as soon as she turns 18. Otherwise living with the mother will only harm her studies and mental health. If the mother is such a narcissistic person she may even try to marry off OP or force her to study at whatever college she decides. At some point this will explode and OP will need to decide whether to stay with mother or leave.
MI’m sorry to hear what you are going through. If your father is a good man as you say and you want him to get out of this with minimal damage you need to be patient and plan it.1. Keep gathering evidences of everything she is doing.
2. Wait till you are above 18. If your father starts divorce proceedings now, your mother will have advantage in having custody of both you and your sister.
3. Don’t tell anyone else as of now.
4. Ask your father to be patient till you attain 18.
5. After you turn 18, your mother can’t legally force you to stay with her. Then you can start living with your father or any other relative.
6. Then your father can file for a divorce on grounds of adultery.
7. You will appear as a witness on your father’s side in the court to mention how she cheated on him etc etc.
8.Hopefully he will get a divorce and she can’t claim much alimony maintenance because of the adultery and because she is working.
9. Hopefully he will be able to get custody of your sister also. This is unfortunately the most difficult part.
