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MIt pains the most when the wounds are fresh. Give it some time to heal and you’ll not feel as strong about this as you do today.
And I don’t think he was a fraud the way you are depicting him here based on a story/detail mismatch with his cousins. Our memories are essentially malleable, and over time, we change the entire detail of any incident without even noticing it. Happened with me a few times ie. I was narrating a decade old incident among friends and those who were present in that incident differed a lot from my version that made no sense to me. It happens to everyone until someone confronts us and then we come to a realization to not to trust every memory with full certainty because our brains add a lot of fictional details on its own when we recall those stuff. This is how human mind works and a lot of good lawyers use this trick to create contradictions in eyewitness testimony.
There is nothing much you can do in terms of legal actions as he neither abused you nor harmed you in any sense. It was all consensual. What you believe as a lie does really look like an innocent mind trick that he performed without his intentions. He behaved as a gentleman with you prima facia, and i don’t see him in any fault. Take the breakup on a face value instead of making it a moral crusade of finding “the truth” and to save more girls from his misdeeds. It is not worth it for either of you. When any relation ends, try to remain dignified, cur your losses, and move on.
