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MThen it sounds like the friend too needs to be blocked. Your friend may be benefiting in some way and have an ulterior motive to keep you in this situation.
As we’re unable to understand exactly what you did for this person, it’s difficult to say for sure whether you’ll face legal repercussions. However, if you’re certain you didn’t do anything wrong, you can block them completely and ignore them, because their primary goal is to intimidate you into doing what they want, and further contact will definitely result in your getting caught further in this web.And to be certain, I suggest personally discussing with a lawyer, so that you’ll get the benefit of client confidentiality, and explain exactly what you did and what this person was asking you to do.
MYes, it’s fine and the most recommended option to block. Block in WhatsApp, phone calls, instagram, Google pay whatever.MBlocking everywhere would be the most suitable approach. Police don’t have any grounds and they always want to keep their official crime rates low so they prefer not to file any case. Unless his family somehow decides to blame you, and even then due to his history of mental illness police won’t bother.
I don’t think you need to worry, but to stay worry free you really should block all modes of communication so that the next time he melts down you won’t be involvedMThe specific things you’re asking requires more info that you may not be able to share on social media. What kind of legal repercussions are you fearing? If you didn’t do anything illegal, what does this person have over you?
What’s stopping you and your friend from blocking them ?MWrong. Future owners do not appear in this paperwork – OP is most likely referring to a legal heirship certificate and it refers to the deceased person’s heirs, not the alive mother’s heirs. Everyone on the list co-own the property. This happens in cases where a man dies without a will – property goes to their wife + children under hindu and christian law both.MYes, you are co-owners. I have the same paperwork due to dad passing away without a will. Self acquired (non ancestral) property goes to wife + children together when there’s no will.MIndia isn’t very comfortable or friendly towards live in relationships, especially in any place that isn’t a metro city. It would be considered a major taboo and would make you a target for sexual harassment in most places if you’re openly living together. And no family would permit their son or daughter to live at home with a boyfriend or girlfriend.If your bf were really as great as you say and his family were as trustworthy, they would never be okay with this move on your part. Live in relationships are extremely controversial, although there are indian couples taking the courageous step to do so. Often families of women hit the boyfriends with kidnapping or rape charges to get the cops to separate the couple – this happens even with married couples where the family doesn’t approve of the marriage.
Apart from in very rural areas, marrying or deciding your life partner at 18 would be considered very bizarre by any family, and they wouldn’t permit their kids to do so. And absolutely do not marry or date anyone from an extremely rural area – the unimaginable cultural differences will put you in danger.
In this case you’re taking all the risk so perhaps no one from your boyfriend’s family would care. That doesn’t mean you should do it.
MEven if it makes her mental state worse, that’s her responsibility, not yours. She should decide for herself to go for therapy, not make an issue for random people and warn them of being a suspect etc. it’s sadly enough an attempt to get attention to fulfil her emotional needs. You’ll not be suspected – you don’t even know her. Please block everywhere including phone calls and whatsapp so that you don’t have to know anything more about her.MAh okay. Your real issue was mentioned like an afterthought in the penultimate paragraph – didn’t register it. Yeah, it wouldn’t be worth it to pursue it legally but you may be able to intimidate him into returning the final instalment by filing a complaint (not an FIR) and getting the cops to call on himMIf he’s not picking calls then what’s the issue? You have the statements, if he brings it up again, then ask him to produce the statement of the recipient or be silent. The onus is not on you to do anything here – you’ve done your part.MI think you can report the kids to the police and ask them to handle it as a juvenile case. You can say you don’t want to file an FIR, you want the kids parents to be called to the station and cops to talk to them to ensure this doesn’t happen again.
As long as we don’t file FIR, cops can be very cooperative (sadly) so this is how I recently handled a situation (involving a grown man). Also should go with a lawyer who speaks The native tongue and bonus if the lawyer has connections. The cops should summon the family that lives in your building and get them to divulge the parents info, so request the same in your complaint.MYour life will be destroyed if your unstable BIL physically hurts your sister. As of now her mental health is getting irrevocably destroyed as he’s terrorizing her. Please get her and her child out. Divorce is not a bad thing, but losing your sister and/ or your niece/ nephew is not something you or your parents will be able to recover from.
