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MHey, I understand your perspective and I respect your right to express it, but I think you misunderstood a few key things. Let me clarify:
I was never trying to “keep her hanging.” I was honest from the start that I wasn’t ready for *marriage* yet, but I was serious about dating her and growing the relationship at a real, healthy pace. I never misled her into thinking I was just playing around.
I didn’t hide things from my parents out of fear of caste or community issues. I didn’t involve them because I didn’t want to disturb their peace, especially when things got ugly with her family. I’ve always been open-minded and wouldn’t reject someone because of their background.
The relationship was full of love and care from both sides. It wasn’t a situation where I was “using” her. What hurt me was being accused of theft and threatened with police action, while the person I trusted most stood by silently.
You may see it one way, but I lived this—and it’s been incredibly painful and confusing. I came here looking for perspective, not sympathy or judgment. Still, thanks for taking the time to respond.
