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PMost of my relatives already have an idea I feel .my mom when she was okay she would tell them about it .they did nothing to help her so won’t do anything for me too . But she couldn’t produce evidence but now with upi + whatsapp I have evidence which she didn’t have so i think people would have to believe mePYeah you got it right I would basically be thrown out . I donot have the finances now. But i will figure out a way . I am saving the evidence every where and planning on gathering more .
Once my exams are over or i get a job I would tell it to everyone now he is helpful to me somewhat i donot think i would risk that favour
I plan on building from whatever help he is giving me and will tell everyone when I achieve my goal. I came to know about in October but i had my preliminary exam in Feb so didnot dwell on it . I cleared the prelims . Now i have my state services main so i would focus on that .
I would tell to only those people telling whom I am sure I can get some benefits otherwise airing your vulnerability makes you prey to evil vultures of world .PThanks I know about nalsa and pro bono thing but it didn’t even cross my mind that I could be eligible . I thought only people in domestic violence case were eligible I will look into itPMy father stays with us 24*7 and leave us to go meet his arrangement at night at around 8 to 11 so yeah ordering any card he will also have access to that cardPThanks 👍 I have a state civil services mains exam in June . I want to give it my best shot .
Can I connect with you afterwards ?PThanks this seems the best advice I would follow this once I get a job because I donot even have finance for the guardianship case .PShe cannot sign we get a verifying officer from bank to do transactions and suggesting a will he would be beat the hell out of me and get me forcefully married he warned me of that . I would have to think of something .PMy father always had a wandering eye . My mum would tell everyone about it . But as you know no one would help her . She eventually turned bitter . I was young and my father manipulated me .
I read my father chats the amount of affection he is showing to that hoe is nothing we ever got . He sounded like a teenagerHe could have divorced her and carry on but he could not do that. how would he steal my mother money for his side chicks .
How the hell is he the victim ?
He could use his own money not my mother money . Atleast not when she had a stroke thanks to all the trauma he caused her .
He still belittle my mother and me .
He manipulated me to changing nominee for my mother account . He would scare me saying that he would come drunk and bring his drunk friends home .
Imagine all the scary scenarios I felt .
Now he tells me to go find a guy because he won’t pay any dowry for me . When my mother saved money for my marriageI would love to get married but I cannot leave my mother alone.
PMy mom is the strongest woman I know she would travel kms in rajasthan heat to teach students english . She was a govt school teacher . She saved money for me and my marriage but my father took those fds away by manipulating me and changed himself to be the nomineeShe also saved 8 lakh for me in my account . We spent that on her treatment which seemed correct for me
Sadly she won’t get ever be back to normal self . I tried a lot
But I love her so much .PWhat would happen if she passes away . I donot want him to have access to her funds after that .
I donot care about the money but I donot want someone who did so much bad to her to enjoy his life .
He is the nominee of all her account . When she was okay she made me the nominee but he forced me to convince her to change nominee
Now I know about him having an affair I donot want him to have access to her money ever when he caused her so much agonyPYeah I can take care of my mom . I just need a job I donot need to live with him and I need to be strong .
I can hire a 24*7 care takerPHe is accessing my mum saving her pension and is also emotionally manipulating me calling me names .saying that no one would marry me . Iam not good enough . I cannot have a happy life
How can I protect the asset when he has access to debit card in her name he changed himself to be the nominee in mom account .so if she dies he will have access to all her moneyPI just feel so bad for my mother she suffered all her life . She would tell everyone ( me included ) that my dad is doing all this and no one would believe her . Now I feel empty and broken
My father is such a manipulator and he would guilt trip me into the fact that I am not studying enough , not working hard enough .no guy would marry me . That i would not have a happy husband and all that .
When he was doing all this .
