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QNAL..
OP, take help of a lawyer and get your dad to make his will and leave everything property, assets, cash money, FDs, bank accounts, etc to you and your brother and have him exclude his 2nd wife. Also get the will notarized. Also at the same time, get a lawyer to get you and your brother legal documents identifying you both as rightful legal heirs of your father. Get this notarized as well for extra measure. Keep the will and the legal heir documents safe in your possession or in a bank locker.
Do this without letting your stepmother and or her relatives/friends/well-wishers/acquaintances knowing about this and this includes your side as well.
DO NOT let your father proceed with divorce proceedings as this will not go in your favour and the 2nd wife will claim for your dad’s assets, home, property, money, etc. as alimony/maintenance/living expenses.
The courts in India hardly ever favour husbands in a divorce case.
After your father passes away, you can leverage his will to get your inheritance.
I would also advise you to consult a good lawyer with a proven track record specializing in property and inheritance cases in case your stepmother challenges the will in court.
Hope this helps..
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QNAL..OP the concept of emancipation from parents is not prevalent in Indian Law.
However you can seek a separation from parents or change of guardianship.
Here’s how to go about..
https://vakilsearch.com/blog/legally-separate-from-parents-in-india/Just a few things to ponder before you go about this:
Are you absolutely sure about your decision to separate from your family?
You will also have to change your legal guardian from your parents to your someone you trust.
Hope this helps..
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QSure OP can do that. But consider this, OPs land is a rectangular plot of roughly 30ft by 120ft. There are 6 siblings including OP. The sisters share comes to 1/6th of the property. Imagine dividing this plot for 1/6th of the land, which she won’t be able to sell or do anything with. Hence the suggestion.And it’s ok to have a disclaimer. There are too many plebs here seeking free advice, it’s better to safeguard yourself.
Please note: Disclaimer from my last comment also applies here, as well as any further/future comments that may be made by me on this post.
QNAL..OP have a discussion with your sister. Since your property is a plot, dividing it for one sibling is not an ideal way to dispense the share of the land.
One suggestion is that you construct a multi storey house and give an entire floor to your sister/s. Have separate entrances on all floors. This way all siblings have a full share of the floor space of the land.
Hope this helps.
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QNAL…OP customs duty for phones is basic customs duty of 15%, a 1.5% surcharge, and an 18% GST on the total value of the phone.
You can use DHL or FedEx, they will pick the phone for you and also offer packing service, so any hanky panky business can be avoided, but you will have to request this of them.
Get the address from that person and you can arrange the courier.
What’s surprising is how did he get your number.
Don’t pay any money to this person, its definitely seems like a scam
QNAL..OP kitchen chimneys have grease filters that filter out grease and debris. This filter has to be cleaned from time to time. Unless you have a jet engine powered suction fan, grease should not spew out. Also kitchen chimneys don’t blast smoke out to distances of 10-15 feet except in case of commercial ones used in hotels or industry setups.
So don’t worry about that aspect. Your neighbour is just worried about hypothetical problems created in his mind. Speak to him and also go to his house and ask your family member to fry something and turn the chimney on on the highest fan setting and see if there is any smoke/grease or debris are blasted out reaching the neighbours house. It will be good if you go with another person and have that person record the whole thing. This will serve as proof that you have made attempts to sort the issue.
In case the neighbours are adamant and insist on calling the police, tell them to go ahead. Police don’t have time to deal with such trivial and petty issues.
If the cops do come over, file a counter complaint on the neighbour for harassment and threatening your mother.
Hope this helps..
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QNAL..OP i understand your side. To answer your question, yes you are the a$$hole for expecting a share of the property, when you are not contributing to the emi (assuming as you did not specify this)
You are not living in the 1950’s, it’s 2025 and it is your GFs choice on what she does with her property.
That being said, it’s your choice whether to marry her or not. However if you marry her, please reach an agreement that since it’s her decision to not give you a share in her property post marriage, you are also not liable to pay any emi towards said property nor be held liable to pay for any emi, fines, fees, property tax, legal issues arising out of said property in the event if she is unable to pay for the emi.
Also add a clause that she likewise is also not entitled to any share of property that you purchase out of your own pocket and of your own money/assets and are solely paying for in future. Icing on the cake will be if you add a clause that includes any property jointly owned by you and your gf post marriage and she agrees to that. (One can dream)
Get a lawyer to write the agreement and print it on stamp paper with a value of INR 500/- or above and have her sign this and also get it notarized after she signs.
Please note in case you buy any property on your own without including her, please put in your mother’s name.
Hope this helps..
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QNAL…OP don’t pay heed to the plums and cantaloupes and other fruits asking you to leave your husband or stay with your folks.
You have a job, career and a child. That’s a lot.
What you can do instead is try to speak to your husband to see if you can have a helper hired to care for the BIL. Or if that’s not feasible, then reason with your family to have the BIL committed to a psychiatric facility.
Also bipolar disorder can be managed with the right combination of treatment, medicine, psychiatric therapy, and outpatient programs which can help your BIL live a better healthier life.
Consider the above option.
Hope this helps..
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QNAL..How old are you OP that you have decided to elope? Have you given much thought about this? I am sure that the decision to elope is coming from you rather than your bf.
And this is rich coming from you OP when you are having sex related problems with your bf where he can’t seem to get it up as per your other post on r/sex.
Also you say if your family came to know about your plan, they will harm your bf. What guarantee is there that after you elope, they will not harm you and your bf? Many have advised you to seek protection from the police and high courts, etc. but do you think the cops will watch you guys 24/7? This is the Indian cops we are talking about, your family would have taken action and the cops wouldn’t have even known, until they have found your corpses.
There is also a guaranteed fact that your family will file cases for abduction, rape, religious conversion, etc to name a few against your bf and his family and blackmail you to agree with them. This way they will torment your bf and his family and also humiliate him and his family. Why are you trying to ruin and destroy the lives of your bf and his family?
There is a lot of trouble with inter caste and inter religious couples who have eloped and married in our country as such. Don’t add yourself as another number to that statistic.
Either you and your bf find a way to get married with your respective family’s consent and approval or drop the idea altogether and do yourselves both a favour.
QNAL…OP since you stay in an apartment, there should be a residents association or HOA of some sort. Try to get the association on your side and get them to issue a notice to the errant neighbour.
If you want to file a police complaint, then you need to measure the noise level. If the music is played above 55 Decibels (Db) then you can make a police complaint. Hire a lawyer and file a complaint to the magistrate who can authorise punitive action to be taken against the miscreants.
The above link can help give some ideas about this. Also you can’t do this anonymously. Your neighbour already is aware that you have accosted and fought with him over the noise issue.
Hope this helps..
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QNAL..HR here..
OP firstly Congratulations! That said The Maternity Benefit Act applies in your case. Since you say that you are a contractual employee, if it’s thru an an agency, your leaves will be thru the agency. If you are hired directly by this company as a contractor, then the leaves will be granted by the company.
Don’t give in to the corporate bullying. Stand your ground and inform that HR Rep of yours that you have read the Maternity Benefit Act (please read it and understand that fully, it is very easy and simple) and that if you are denied your right for Maternity Benefits you will proceed legally.
Please also be advised that they (company management, HR and your manager) will put pressure on you, via more tasks, work and make life difficult for you, so that you resign. Dont give in, hang on. If your salary is substantial than don’t let the bullies win.
Do consult a good lawyer who specialises in labour, employment and contract law cases and keep him/her on standby. You can also send a legal notice when you feel that the company is not going to budge on their stance.
Alternatively you can also contact the women & child development department of your region to step in mediate on your behalf.
You can also raise a complaint to the labour commissioner under whose jurisdiction your company’s office location falls under
>I told her that I am only inquiring about the leaves and am not looking for any benefits (had to say to get her to speak)
Never do this. The leave is the benefit along with pay.Also keep emails/teams chat, whatsapp chats as proof.
Hope this helps..
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QNAL..OP even tho you apologized, you could have just paid the guy an amount of up to Rs. 1000/- and sorted the matter amicably.
I would suggest that you get your car fixed and move on. Peace of mind is better than trying to go to the cops and getting hassled by them. You and everyone here knows that the cops won’t do shit about your issue.
The other person was a coward. He didn’t have the balls to sort the issue man to man, and chose to do what women would generally do.
Alternatively, you can find a car’s owner by using the vehicle’s registration number on the Parivahan website or by sending an SMS.
Online
Go to the Parivahan website
Follow the procedure to check vehicle owner details
SMS
Open your phone’s messaging app
Type VAHAN followed by a space
Type the vehicle’s registration number
Send the SMS to 7738299899
The SMS will return details about the vehicle, including the owner’s name, make, model, insurance details, and RC expiry date.
You can also use the ACKO app or the VAHAN portal to check vehicle details.
(Got the above info from Google, search “find car owner by registration number”)If the above works, then You can check with a lawyer if there is anything that you can do legally and get that lawyer to file an FIR on your behalf and then see how you can go about claiming the damages to your car.
Hope this helps..
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QNAL..OP take the leap and file a complaint in the consumer court.
Hire a good lawyer specializing in consumer disputes and send a legal notice. These bastards operate their business in such manner with the overconfidence that who has the time to go to consumer courts and spend time and money on legal services.
So they thug their way into such malpractices.
Similar thing had happened with us with DTDC courier services. My F-i-Law had sent a brand new sofa cum bed using their service. When we got the delivery, the sofa was broken and damaged. These DTDC fuckers did the same circus, stating that the item was damaged before they even came to pick it up.
I had asked my F-i-L to take photos of the sofa front back sides, etc. and also advised him to record video of the packing, loading and pick up of the sofa. Thankfully he did that. The case took about 8 odd months and on the basis of the video and photo proofs and the purchase invoice got awarded the full price of the sofa plus 50k in damages for mental stress, health issues etc. as a direct result of the issue. The courier company was also fined by the court.
In your case, if you have the invoice for the curtains, plus photos of the curtains before and after the dry cleaning this should help your case. It will also help if you have the bill from the previous dry cleaners, that shows that the curtains were carefully handled by them, will prove the negligence by the current dry cleaners.
Do not accept their paltry compensation and take the time to screw these assholes for the damage they have done. This now is a matter of principle and to let these overconfident pricks know that you will not go gently into the night. Take the time out of your schedules to teach them a lesson.
Claim for the cost of the curtains and the mental stress and harassment along with damages for health issues as a direct result of the dispute. Against the owner of the franchise, file for sexual harassment and outraging the modesty of a woman since he stripped in front of your mother. Also add section 296 of BNS for obscenity (stripping in front of your mother).
Until your court case is concluded, do not post negative reviews against the franchise as this can go against you.
Hope this helps..
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