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RSee, I understand you feel that way. But I had to say that to drive the point home because you still kept saying that you don’t need any documentation or proof when it’s a _close someone_. That’s textbook refusal to accept an error on your part.
That being said, as many others have pointed out – you have very little to worry about since the burden of proof is on your former friend to prove that the money was loaned to you.
I would however recommend you immediately take legal assistance. A lawyer will know what to do and can even guide you with any anticipatory measures against said friend.
R> Also, when someone is this close, you never care to make record of proofs of any kind. A word is enough.How can you say this even now? When you’re the one who is massively screwed over by a “close someone”. Didn’t you learn your lesson?
A word is never enough. Probably for 25-50k. But definitely not for 12L.
Even close relatives who make such huge transactions sign an agreement confirming the loan and repayment terms.
Your friend doesn’t need proofs. He can claim that you met him personally and asked for a loan, sent him a photo of your cheque and so he transferred the amount. Now you’re making up stories to escape repaying it.
All the proof he needs is the transfer made to your bank account.
While you have virtually nothing. No emails, No Whatsapp chats, No cash trail. Just your word.
If he takes you to court (which I assure you he will since he has decided to screw you over) – you will not only have to prove that this money was a repayment. You will also have to prove the _source_ of the original 12L along with tax receipts for the money.
You’re for all intents and purposes pretty screwed in this matter, my friend.
Your only saving grace is that the law requires him to _prove_ that he lent you the money. However, you should be prepared to bear some legal fees now.
Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.
RI reread your initial post. A lot of care will pass for domiciliary but they require 72 hours of dedicated care to approve. A singular injection may not be approved.I’ll ask around on this and get back to you about your extremely specific use case.
RPlease also ensure next time you renew the policy that _domiciliary_ treatment is covered. Check your existing policy for it too.RPlease maintain sufficient proofs of you having sent the email and uploaded it to your HR portal.Your notice period commences from the date you informed your employer.
You can also send a follow-up email or via additional messaging systems – so you have additional proof. Please remember to mention that you have already submitted it on X date and it shows pending approval and that you have received no confirmation from their end over email or on the portal.
Didn’t you have a conversation with your manager informing them of your intent to resign?
RIn your long wall of text tirade, you’ve already accused me of being victom blaming, self-righteous and of living in an ivory tower.I can respond in kind, but, I won’t engage with you any further.
RI am not a fan of Zepto. And I hate their practices and almost exclusively never use them.But this sounds like you basically shitting on the brand with your clickbait title. Because you say your “Zepto put your life in danger” and the in the next line you say “but I feel the drive (your aggressor) was the most vulnerable”.
You talk about labour malpractices. But I don’t see any here.
With a billion payment solutions on the app itself (including UPI) why would you rely on driver payments?
Also, the driver has to go back and clear the billing for every single Cash on Delivery order irrespective of any issue. It’s his responsibility to collect the payment.
This is not your local Kirana shop. This is a multi-million enterprise, why would you think they’ll make any adjustments or give you any time for your 500 rupees?
Forget Zepto, even if you go to a restaurant in your city. And your payment fails. You have to pay the money again, till it credits. And if your money isn’t returned, you can come back and ask for a refund after showing sufficient proof.
In this entire transaction, you didn’t use Zepto’s technology either. You used a third party tech (UPI) which failed.
The driver initially trusted you. But he must’ve panicked when the money didn’t credit even in 2 days and came to ask you to settle the amount. He wasn’t mistreated by Zepto.
So I don’t know what your qualm is.
The onus was on you to pay. The screw up happenes on your end.
You could’ve taken the driver’s number. Made the payment again. And told him that in case your payment becomes successful he can reverse the payment.
But no, you decided to exploit the poor dude.
RThe staff refused petrol, because they “couldn’t” even if they wanted to.Shut down times are reserved for refilling the tank, density checks and routine maintenance. Things that cannot be done when the Petrol Pump is in service and there are people around.
There’s a lot of safety hazards when certain maintenance services are carried out as well.
The staff you met weren’t there to serve petrol, they were skeleton staff probably waiting for the arrival of the refilling tankers so they can assist. Then go to sleep. The pumps were off from the main backend centre after shutdown (as is the norm for when the tank is refilled).
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You’re getting mad about the wrong things. Petrol Pumps are called “Retail Outlets” and donot come under emergency services. Not just in India, but everywhere.
They provide fuelling services to private emergency vehicles, but these vehicles have daily/alternate day refuelling slots. Often in less busy times.
There are petrol pumps that work 24/7 – but it’s a personal choice by the owners and management. Based on the traffic and footfall.
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When dealing with an emergency,
“OMG, xxx had a heart attack. Let’s rush him to the hospital!!!!”
“Oh fuck! My car has no petrol”.
There are so many options to the above scenario, like calling an ambulance, taking a neighbour’s/friend’s/relative’s car, calling a cab, calling any local mode of transport.
None of the options are “Oh yes, let’s fill petrol first!”
Rhttps://www.google.com/search?q=24+hour+petrol+pump+raipurNext time, call an ambulance. Or even a cab. Or ensure you have some petrol at least.
I am sure it would’ve been faster than you going around every petrol pump in the area.
