I know this is harsh. But these are the consequences of marrying a total stranger. The idea of arranged marriage only works in close knit communities. Take the time to date and actually get to know each other next time.
As for getting your money your best bet is to lawyer up and take it to court. Make sure the parents are aware that there are potentially embarrassing photographs that may embarrass their family. If you’re lucky they’ll reimburse the expenses without a court case.