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RThe dilemma you might be feeling is if you go forward with it in a legal way there is a possibility of your hands getting dirty too, cause their would be accusations from both parties.
That being said, the fear of getting your hands dirty would drag you into depression for the rest of your life – if you decide to let this matter go peacefully. It is not that easy, so for your own mental well-being fight for yourself, fight for the mental abuse and things that have been made normal to you in the name of ‘natural polygamy’ but is no way near to normal or okay.
Follow these steps first:
1. Equip yourself with proofs, as many as possible.
2. Get yourself a good lawyer, and file for a divorce.
3. Cut all contacts, communication, meetings with your husband, don’t allow your family members to have it either.
4. Keep the therapy sessions and self work to cultivate high self esteem and a fearless attitude – its your duty to fight for yourself, and dont back out from it no matter what.
What has been done is in the past now, but if you back out in the name of love, attachment, fear or whatever, you would be stuck with a life thats not worth living with ease. May the force be with you.
