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RRuchikamaster743
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April 23, 2025 at 2:04 pmThat sounds like a plan. Jab itna involve hona hai toh they better get involved ALL THE TIMERRuchikamaster743
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April 23, 2025 at 1:29 pmWell, that’s what my mother and I discussed today. My brother will have to take his stand. He has been quite and listened to everything sil says.But yeah, at the end of the day Bajrangbali hi bachaengeπ
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April 23, 2025 at 1:25 pmSIL’s father is into Notary (or something related to law). Initially they were really sweet to my parents. But on the wedding day SIL’s mother started indirectly disrespecting my mother. She would ignore or just simply give back answers to a simple question related to the rituals. Same with her sister. Sil’s sister disrespected my aunt too. But my aunt defended her.Sil once told my mother how her father used to stay outdoors since her mother always picked up fights for petty things.
I wouldn’t consider my sil as a cunning woman but she kind of behaves like a bipolar person. We are not sure of they would take ‘counselling’ in the right way. They would probably make it a big deal by comparing it with a mental disorder.
My SIL is sabotaging her house because of her parents which is wrong. And about my brother, he is afraid too of all the things happening these days regarding fake cases on men. There was no dowry involved but we know how things are these days.
I am married too and i know how much i can get my parents involved in my personal matter. My MIL too can be a pain sometimes, but my mother never interferes. And its not because i have asked her too, but she knows that her involvement can ruin my relationship with my husband. But i guess SIL hasn’t realised this.
If all these things keep on happening, i am afraid what will happen to my brother and parents.
RRuchikamaster743
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April 23, 2025 at 10:29 amThank you so much for your adviceRRuchikamaster743
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April 23, 2025 at 10:02 amAlso, they have a child. Will that be a problem? As my SIL is unemployed.RRuchikamaster743
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April 23, 2025 at 10:01 amThank you for the advice. We’ll try.RRuchikamaster743
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April 23, 2025 at 9:51 amBut what if my SIL & her family take counselling in a wrong way? They are not as educated as my family and not even close to our financial status. This is why my parents are afraid that they might lose things if her family suggests her divorcing my brother. -
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