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SYou pay monthly maintenance and it is responsibility of the society to make sure that lifts etc are taken care of and certain AMC is in always in place. If tomorrow someone’s pipe busts open and water seeps in the shaft where lifts are placed then would they ask that person to pay for the repair charges? That’s not how things work. It is responsibility of the society to safeguard the lift shaft etc. and also replace/repair the burst pipes.SJust ask him to keep the phone and enjoy! There are no free lunches in this world, bud. They are trying to rob you again. Might ask for your UPI pin etc. And how do you know if the phone wasn’t used in some illegal activity before being returned to you? Also, he would ask for courier cost and all that beforehand.SDon’t give a dime to anybody. Ask that person to file a legal suit and take the ownership. If he gets aggressive, call the police, even they can’t remove you until and unless the other person has a will in his name. Legally, the property belongs to the govt and they would acquire it when they wish to. No other person can lay a claim over the property.SBook a direct flight to Dubai since it provides visa on arrival for Canadian citizens. Keep in mind that you don’t carry any luggage. Just put some money and valuables in a laptop bag and leave in the afternoon on the pretext of meeting a friend for work. There are flights for Dubai in noon. Your parents won’t care as nobody wants to go out in the sun during summers. Once in Dubai book the next flight to Canada.SSince you are a Canadian citizen, you could consult Canadian Embassy and narrate your problem. They would provide you security to immediately leave India.SGo and see what’s the matter. If they ask for money for the surgery then probably tell them that you would pay medical bills directly at any government hospital. No private hospital, no private room and no medicine expenses included. And this time get everything in writing and make police a witness to the whole documentation. Also, do mention that the lady who was driving wasn’t carrying drivers license at the point of accident.SOffer little money to the cops and be done with it. Or settle with the thief after taking back the rest of your money from him.SConsult a lawyer but in reality in such cases men have no option but to have an out of court settlement. Pay her or convince her, there is no other way out of it. And never ever think of leaving the country in the hurry. If a case is registered the police would issue an LOC against the guy due to which whenever he steps into the country he would be sent straight to jail and his passport would be submitted in the court. So, no more leaving the country. Therefore, best option is to settle.SDon’t break off the marriage. Confront him yourself and see what he has to say. If you bring it up in the family his reputation will be destroyed. And for a man his pride is everything. That might push things to a point of no return in your relationship. As you said he is a decent guy from the outside. Maybe he is addicted to porn and maybe he has a high libido which you aren’t able to satisfy that is making him lurk around such pages. He might not want to hurt you which is why isn’t pushing you and demanding more sex in turn he has deviced a convenient way as an outlet for his feelings. Don’t make assumptions. It is better that you ask the guy what’s going on with him.
