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SI forgot to mention his cousin mentioned before my parents
The girl is a wrong hire – “isne humara ladka nhi sudhara” n very rudely not in a joking way at all
And added I was a zero – inspite of paying equally in joint account – I did not do anything for the home. I put 3 servants to work and paid them personally not thru joint account. Bought groceries separately thru my credit card which was not joint. N did uncountable things. I just landed a scam company I feel after being called a wrong hire
SHow, zero recovery ok. But I still will be harrassed with constant court dates. How to get rid of him. I am totally in favor of what you say.I asked for mutual divorce twice after separation. He gives no response. How? Ask again n make him feel more superior? Any realistic ideas?
SHe threw me out 25 times at night.
He took 15+ lakhs in account n was asking for more 15 in one go otherwise he would kill me n my parents
He would not take me anywhere
He was taking my salary n using it as his own n I was deprived of food I only cooked 🤷
This is too little that I share n I did not even mention what his mom didMy parents got to know on my first birthday after 8+ months that he use to throw me out on nights in drunk state because they called me at 12 am n I was crying top voice standing on road when he threw me
He told my parents straight on face he married me for me
Muj jesi moti mei aur kuch nhi haiI had zero life there?
Everyone in this world needs to understand not all men are same. I recieved the worst as a husband. Men in family dint trust me either initially but he repeated everything in seperation.
He threw his own mom out of my maika on the trespassing night n it got captured on CCTV because we called her at 11:30 pm to take him so we didn’t have to call police as my joint property which they had captured from me illegally was a building away
I was told by Neighbors to not go out alone because he threatened Neighbors for their lives during sepration who showed up on tresspassing night . They were rwa I knew no one. I have no contact with them.
He cannot improve in short.
There is soooo much I have gone thru
SI did that mistake to not drag his family in any of the cases. Just added his mom n his cousin in FIR coz they were involved heavily even during seperation inspite of knowing my dad’s condition. I m sure they had cake n halwa when my dad passed away in NoV 2023 itself. It’s a cruel family with 20 years of litigation experience n divorce experience in family. I and my family knew zero. He had everything planned before marriage but all his cards opened up in March 2024 when RBI ombudsman helped me get to bank account documents and more from bank. There is so much harm he has done. N is laughing in the dowry car fully paid by my money. i did the mistake. I get it. I was not taught all this cleverness n it is still not my nature. I appreciate all these advice though. ThanksSAlso no maintenance or alimony demand. Just if he could pay back my money n stree dhan. Not even shadi ka kharcha. I will appreciate it if someone can get this out of him because I doubt it now. Also, I have paid rigorously to lawyers. No good. I m not sure how to proceed. Trusting someone is becoming difficult.SProblem is I have zero savings n am short of funds even on high income. We sold my parents flat n needed a flat for mom. This is sooo complicated. But thanks for sharing this adviceSTresspassing drunk 452
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Recovery – bank transfers n streedhan which he n his eloped withFraud – his 15 year old dead father is nominee on paper n bank account. He switched it after I signed documents. He kept my DPD blank signed checks which bank did not disclose until RBI ombudsman intervened. He manipulated police officials telling them my maika is his n his mom’s permanent address. There is so much more – this not yet charged on him but after evidence I can try, but lawyer refuses, there is no fraud. I have proof of everything here.
Divorce
Protection case filed n dismissed for high court in July 2024 but I have no strength to go to chandigarh. I m severely physically n emotionally unwell.There is much more tbh. This is 0.1% of the problem I m stating.
SI earn twice him on paper. I cannot prove his other income sources. My issue is work is getting affected n he doesn’t even appear, gives 500, then 1000 fine atleast for each thing. DV evidence just happened a week ago where I filed it in Jan 2023. He is still asking for my salary slip when I did not ask for maintenance or alimony and submitted my true affidavit of income in jan 2024. It’s too unsafe in Faridabad with police on his side.
