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SStart showcasing your disinterest in her overtly.
Look happier.
Wear nicer things.
Keep the mystique alive.
Keep the conversations short w her.
Sometimes more than therapy, real-world psychological warfare works.
S1. Learn to detach. Their fights are not your fights. Their state of mind is not yours. If they want to divorce, they will. As you grow older, this tool of staying detached from others problems will prove handy. I know it’s tough considering their your folks, but since you also already want to desperately move out, start with moving out your emotions from that place. Buy a noice cancelling headphone set and wear it whenever they start fighting loud in front of you. It’ll also make them feel small.2. Don’t think of moving out physically now. Use your financially privileged position to gain access to a high powered academic skillset. Start looking for bachelors degree programs in other countries. Start applying. Leave home with a purpose and reason.
3. Her relationship with person A B C won’t hurt you. Your mum is tied down due to her beaurocratic position. For such people, societal image matters a lot. They won’t make any move publicly to damage that hologram of a happy family. So let her entertain herself with FB and Insta love games.
4. Learn about money and savings. Open a joint account for you and your brother as a backup. And Just In Case.
5. Take therapy if you can. For your own mental health cleansing.
Hope this helps.
Cheers.
