NAL.
I agree with all the lawyers asking you to go for contesting divorce proceedings. Before you go ahead, immediately, (maybe today itself) Put cameras outside your main door and also one inside your living room. Make sure the cams are with Mic and not just visuals which record audio as well.
This way you can record everything when she tries to come to your house uninvited / forcefully. It can help you as evidence in the court during the proceedings.