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  • in reply to: Preparing myself for marriage. #15409
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      April 14, 2025 at 5:13 am
      1. Well if you are not getting married in India then I would say get a prenup done.
      2. Go for a marriage counselling as there are things both of you should be prepared for before starting this chapter.
      3. Go for a medical test with hiv (somethings cannot be cured for generations)
      4. Sit with your families and make them understand not to interfere too much into your lives post marriage
      5. Do not spend lavishly and take up too much debt. Once married you are a different family and no one will be willing to help you.
      6. Do no start pleasing people. Learn to build your small family and not gift others or throw parties just to make others like you
      7. Do not show off on social media. Rejoice in private. Excel in private. But be humble in public.
      8. Go to the gym if not already and keep fitness as a priority for both of you.
      9. Take care of your parents and ask your wife to do so as well. Don’t make it such that one person takes care of both the parents.
      10. Try to shift out of your house. You guys need to figure things out on your own

      in reply to: Preparing myself for marriage. #15383
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        April 14, 2025 at 5:05 am
        she doesn’t have a problem because she knows no matter what you do during divorce (hope not) nothing will be make sense.

        in reply to: Help Needed – Serious Violation of Privacy #15608
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          April 13, 2025 at 11:26 pm
          I feel you should go to the police station and file a complaint and submit the cctv recording. Let him be questioned and the entire family know about it.

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            April 13, 2025 at 11:18 pm
            Sadly no. Best to do an out of court settlement and be done with it.

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              April 13, 2025 at 6:34 pm
              bro get it done outside. In India you will end up loosing everything not just your wife.

              in reply to: Is Prenup valid in India? #16815
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                April 12, 2025 at 6:50 am
                Prenups aren’t valid. Dowry is illegal. Alimony is legal.

                in reply to: Marital issues please help #16789
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                  April 12, 2025 at 6:41 am
                  Wow. Everyday I wonder so many marital issues around us and people still keep falling into this trap. I have nothing much to advise you man. If it is possible for you mentally, I would say let her go her ways. There is no point forcing someone to change. They will always have that revenge in them. And with women, it is far worse. Trust me.

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                    April 11, 2025 at 1:48 pm
                    would do the same. Respect lost can’t be earned back. In this world where everyone is struggling to make ends meet, there is no need to take such bs from anyone. Leave drama for TV. At home you need peace.

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                      April 11, 2025 at 1:38 pm
                      An old vehicle is only illegal if it is running on the road right? Else it is an antique. How can they take it away??? I feel you should fight it out.

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